lonely_1 Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 hey everyone, i havent posted here in a while. I was wondering if some of the female members would tell me what goes on in strip clubs with male strippers. For example at strip clubs with females strippers, there are 'rules', i know other stuff happens but not out in the open it doesn't. Now i saw on a website that male strippers get off the stage and end up getting BJs and handjobs from the women audience and in the back room they will have sex with women. Now this type of thing gets me insecure, because if my GF or wife wanted to go to one and there was alcohol and friends egging you on, i can see someone getting peer pressured into it. Now i know some of you will say what kind friends are those, but we all know it happens at times. Now I included passion parties too because iv heard of male strippers going to those to dance. Or was this all fake on the website i saw, because it sure didnt look set up. And on the particular site the male strippers were walkin up to women and would try to force their heads to their d!cks, even after the women said no. Or the women would be shaking their heads (saying no) and the stripper would grab their hands and make them stroke. Now is all this true? Personally I think of this as cheating and I wouldnt put up with it and it would probably end up in a break up (even if we had kids), I know for a fact that i wouldnt cheat on anyone and i would expect the same. Anytime I had gone to a strip club (if i was dating or not) it was when a friend(s) would come from out of town and we'd go have a beer or two.
Quiksilver ca Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 My buddy is a stripper. He says its all light-hearted fun, and respects emotional boundaries. Sure it might get a little dirty, but that depends on the individual.
norajane Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 because if my GF or wife wanted to go to one and there was alcohol and friends egging you on, i can see someone getting peer pressured into it. So you have neither a GF or wife who has suggested going to a male strip club? So why are you all angst-ridden about something that hasn't happened, isn't happening, and may never happen, especially since you have neither a gf or wife? Stressing out about stuff that isn't happening with women who aren't in your life isn't a particularly suave way to go through life.
JerseyShortie Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Dude, you saw one website that is probably fabericated to some extent anyway with patrons giving male stripper blow jobs and now you are afraid that your wife might do this? Welcome to what women endure everyday. Except add in the fact that there are way more strip clubs with female strippers then male strippers, and the fact that men are more turned on phyiscally by gyrating greased up women then most women are by gyrating gay greased up monkies...and the amount that men go to female strip clubs compared to the amount most women probably go to male strip clubs; and what you are worried about is 100x more strong for women and what they need to worry about. But to answer your question. I don't know one woman that is honestly turned on by male strippers. Women are not like men. We don't like seeing gay looking guys swiveling their hips like a homo. Most women do it as a lark, most men do it because it really turns them on.
PRSun Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 I'm not worried about my spouse going to a strip club or male burlesque show. Those guys are beefy and all but most girls aren't in the game for physicality. Sure it's funn to see the guys in the speedos jump around stage and dance but unless they're under the influence of some form of drug, they're not down to hook up. I know some of the guys from chippendales (they work in vegas) and while a FEW girls slide them their numbers, the vast majority just yell and laugh at themselves and stuff. He gets most of his action where I'd DRED my girlfriend going. The Night Clubs around the casino. If your girlfriend is going to a night club in her short short skirt with her girlfriends, then and only then do you know what it's like for your girlfriend when you go to a stripclub. A night club not only presents her with a good looking guy, it gives that psychological sense of intamacy and tyically alcohol which is a thousand times more seductive to the female mind then the male strip club ever will be.
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