tealeafbud Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 Hi there. I'm new to the forum and stumbled upon it after I had some emotional issues after breaking up an engagement. I may indulge the whole storylater, but am not ready right now. Currently, I appreciate everyone sharing their stories of heartbreak and misery. I wish I could see more positive stories. My question is to everyone who broke up because the other person is seeing someone else. Are the nights harder on you than the daytime? I always imagine her spending the nighttime with this new person, and it makes me crazy sometimes. Note: i know i mentioned I broke the engagement, but we had been talking again (surprise) and I've been having feelings for her again, and she's forgiven me. But recently, she met someone on myspace and she's been seeing him exclusively for about a week. Not just dating, but he stays the night. It just kills me and I continually wonder if I have made the biggest mistake of my life. But then I read all the reasons I wrote why I couldn't have married her, then feel a bit better. It's still difficult though. Please don't insult me, because there's more to the story than I can include here at this time. Thanks for your responses.
MalachiX Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 So, just to be clear, you're cheated? It got a bit garbled there. Anyway, nights are worse mainly because there's less to take your mind of things. At least for me, I feel trapped and alone in my apartment and start having panick attacks (which I havn't in years).
sedona Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 Nights can be bad. Mornings when I'm waking up can be even tougher for me though.
iwish Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 yeah i tend to remember more in the morning, then it fades a bit in the afternoon and returns just before i go to bed.. it's so great being heart broken!
Kman21 Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 u know right after i wake up i the morning, i start missing my ex so much, its like someone took a sledge hammer and strike it at my heart. Is it normal to be feeling like that in the morning or am the only one?
wareagle Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 Mornings are really tough for me, waking up she is the first thing I think about, but I think I woke up a few day's ago and didn't think about her first thing. Or maybe I just imagined I didn't LOL. I work with my ex so the day's are hard for me knowing she is in the same building as I am, I catch myself actually looking for her at times during the day. Then it's the time from when I arrive home in the afternoon till around 7ish that I have a hard time keeping myself busy and trying not to think about her. I have plenty of things I could be doing around my house to keep me occupied, but for some reason I just don't feel like doing anything. At bedtime I lay in bed and think of scenarios that I may end up in where I meet her unexpectedlly, and I try to think about what I might say to her. It's tough man!!!
Author tealeafbud Posted March 31, 2008 Author Posted March 31, 2008 Although I shouldn't even care, nights are bad since I imagine them going out to dinner, spending time together, and sleeping together. I literally get heart palpitations thinking about it. What I try and do is to focus on other things, but it's very difficult. I know that she's more of a home body and they probably just sit around and watch her "shows". I wonder if maybe they're going out and doing new things, that we never used to do. But i doubt it. anyhow, the nights are twice as bad as the daytime with regards to thinking about her, and dealing with the demons.
becky001555 Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Night's are worse without a doubt, when you see things on the t.v that you used to watch together films, t.v programs etc, night time also gives you time to think aswell, the worst thing is is when you know that they have gone out for the night and you haven't, you don't know if they are getting with other people or not, and even though it shouldnt it gives you the worst panicky feelings ever, knocks you sick sometimes. Im still in the early stages of a break up and my ex is in uni so knowing that he is out at night is the hardest thing ever!
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