LosingMyDreamGirl Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 Is there a post or guide that might show if I am the other man? I dont want to be, but I got a text today from a girl I am kind of seeing that seemed like it was meant for a husband or boyfriend. I have not asked her about it. She told me she was arguing with an Ex. Just curious if there are 'signs' to watch or look for.
dreamergrl Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 I think the signs of cheating would be rather similar.
Balthazar Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 When you suspect you are the Other man, well, you usually are. Just use your common sense; no guides necessary. If you're not sure, fill us in;many posters will help.
fishtaco Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 You don't need a guide. Always assume you are the OM unless you have already talked and agreed to be exclusive with each other. Although there's nothing to stop them from seeing other men anyway, but the big difference is, one is called dating, other one is called cheating. The good part about that is, you can have OW too. So are you exclusive with this woman? If not, then you really don't have the right to question who she sees, and she also doesn't have the right to question who else you're seeing either. If you are exclusive, then she should be your girlfriend as opposed someone you're "kind of seeing".
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