itstough Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 I have a situation that I would like help in understanding what she means. I have known this woman for about 10 years. She recently broke up with her boyfriend. She tells me one day that she has to tell me something. So she tells me that she met this guy and slept with him. Luckly I was already told this by another friend she told or else I would of been really shocked. So she finally tells me and I was a little upset. A few days later she said ""Somebody told me you must be mad at me because you like me." I said well you never figured that one out? ""No I am dense with things like that. If I would of known."" You can't blame me for not liking you sleeping with this other guy. "**** happens" So what does what she said to me mean? Thanks!
Author itstough Posted April 2, 2008 Author Posted April 2, 2008 Does anybody have a answer for me? Thank You
Gunsmith Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 I personally am a little foggy as to what you're saying. Are you saying that you like a girl who recently broke up with her boyfriend, and slept with someone else? Please clarify. Thanks.
Author itstough Posted April 2, 2008 Author Posted April 2, 2008 Thanks let me try to make it clear. This woman broke up with her long time boyfriend. She then meets another guy whom she slept with. She tells me that she slept with this guy and I got a little upset. I guess she was confused why I was upset so she asked somebody and they told her that I must like her. The following is what she said to me after she found out that I like her. " I know why you got mad at me. It is because you like me." I told her yes you have never picked up on that after all these years. she then said "I am dense about those things. You should of told me you liked me. If I would of known." that is where she stopped. What I am asking is what did she mean by the things she said to me in the quotation marks.
roxy_1980 Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 She may mean: A) She would have not told you about the other guy she slept with, cause that would just be mean. B) She could consider a relationship with you. But to know which, you'd have to ask her.
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