mstyana Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 I've been dating a guy for about a little over a year. He is a good man, but he doesnt spend time with me like he use to. He claims because he work from 6p to 6a he is very tired. But on his off days he goes home to his mother. So I stop calling him as much as I did, but its seems when i back away he comes on strong. But soon as i show him interest he acts distant. Im confused.
Author mstyana Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 Can someone please help me!!!
cheezy100 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 I've been dating a guy for about a little over a year. He is a good man, but he doesnt spend time with me like he use to. He claims because he work from 6p to 6a he is very tired. But on his off days he goes home to his mother. So I stop calling him as much as I did, but its seems when i back away he comes on strong. But soon as i show him interest he acts distant. Im confused. Your man pretty much works the same hours as the guy I'm dating for a month now. Personally, the guy that I'm dating is used to sleeping only 5 hours a day. But whenever we're together, he's very energetic, although sometimes i see him yawning. Not sure if that's bad. My guy lives with his brother, and his family is not around so he doesn't need to go home on weekends for family often. I say, if you still like him, try asking him out or let's hang out. Maybe you can indirectly suggest to visit his mother with him. Then he can chill with you at home with his mother. With the whole coming up strong and distant, it seems like he only has times that he really wants you and times that he just needs his own space. It may seem similar to a long distance relationship. I see my guy 1-2 week and he wants to see me every other day, but I can't cuz of school. My guy said that once you don't talk for a while or see each other, the feelings go away slowly. I think you guys might be showing some signs of LDR too. But if he still really likes you, he wouldn't be playing with your head like that. That's not nice nor fun. You should maybe ignore him for a while and see if he contacts you or not. If he doesn't, then that means he's not really into you anymore. If he does, then you go play the GAME. You know what I mean? I seriously think that if you're putting more into the relationship than he is, it's not right. Two people should be at the same level. Not one higher and the other one lower. You should really observe and find out if the "feelings" are still there for you two. This is just my thought only.
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