Advocate's Devilette Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 We are on the open ended essay questions on the eharmony communications part. well on one of the questions he answered "I prefer blondes, but you are very attractive in your photo so I'll make an exception for you." I didn't find this a compliment because why did I need to know he usually finds blonds more attractive? It seems again like one of those men ways of making you feel like you are not adequate enough . By the way he is balding, and not super good looking, like a 6 on a scale of 1 to 10. (Sorry but I am more attractive than he is, that is just the truth. Just being honest here.) Should I go ahead and close the match? Other than that, I like his profile and his other questions.
Tony T Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 If you don't find him attractive, write him off. However, he may have told you he preferred blonds because that's what he may have stated in his profile. If he didn't mention that in his profile and there was no other way on the site to detect this, then he has a brain malfunction and you should write him off for that.
curiousnycgirl Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 Why not be honest? Tell him you were put off by the comment but are reserving judgement.
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