breakup Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 I don't know what is it but it seem like not a single day that pass where I am not thinking about her. I am not sure if is actually her, the perception of having a GF, or just past memories. Also I have been missing her family as I was very close to her parent. We have been going on NC for 2 straight month now. She already have a new BF which I have accepted. I am hanging out with my friend more, concentrating on school, etc.. so is not like I am not trying to be active. I just don't know what to do. I am not really ready to dive into another but I believe that the only way for me to stop thinking about her. I can never allow myself to get back with her even if a chance present itself. I just don't know why this is so tough. recap/history -we mutually broke even though i was the one that initiated last Nov of 07 -we went out for 4 3/4 yrs -she was my first love and i was her first real love -we were both young when first dated -she cheated on me on our 3 yr together (she initiated a break before but i declined and told her it was either we breakup or no break. she seem to change and seem to be more outgoing as the years pass.) our personality are totally different. she is more outgoing, talkative, and like to meet new people while i am a bit quite, like to spend my time at home or with my close friends.
New Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 If you really want to forget her, find one thing that you found really bad about her (lets say she cheated you). Next, think about this for a lot of times, "If I married her and she cheated me a lot, we will fight everyday". Then, take a piece of paper, write it down, and put it somewhere that will help you to read that text a lot. Hope this helps. Good luck.
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