themessenger Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 When I would call my ex girlfriend late night she would find it wierd. Yet when she did it to me it was ok. If I ask her what shes up to or if out with a guy I'm busting her chops. Yet when she asks me its ok. When she ...how shell I say this? has a pantie puffer lol its ok When I let one lose it wasn't ok I was always thewre for her, she wasn't for me. We all have imperfections, with our bodys (I hate to say it but we are both fairly attractive) well once in a while I may get a pimple or two, (so does she) the list goes on. yet once again its ok for her and not me. I could go on for ever with this stuff I hate to generalize women but it seems that very often they don't take into consideration there actions. When I do something she doesn't approve of and I bring up an example of how she does the same thing she says I am using ammunition. Does anyone see what I'm getting at? Isn't this insanity? Or am I wrong to think that if she can do something so can I? Anybody have any experience wiith this?
MalachiX Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 Relationships aren't always going to be purely equal because you're different people and show your love in different ways. My last GF would point that to me all the time and, in many ways, she was right. She may not have always gone out of her way to be free to talk the way I did for her but I also didn't always go out of my way to be creatively sweet the way she did for me. I guess my issue wasn't that we weren't equal, it was more that the things I did above and beyond never seemed appreciated whereas I did my best to appreciate all she did. I guess you have to decide if you think things are balanced in the grand scheme of things or if you're being unfairly treated.
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