Kiss Dont Miss Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 I don't like lyirs. For me enough when smb begins lying, when I have some proof it's over.
dreamergrl Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 I know because I caught her, and it was addressed and she felt i was being controlling and it was none of my business. at least thats what she wanted me to feel like. Shes brialinat at turning things around on me. If she's turning around on you, she's probably trying to cover up the real issue. I'd move on.
dreamergrl Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 Up to a certain extent I didn't mind the lies and I was supportive through the relationship. However it's the part where she is blaming me to cover herself up that I can no longer deal with. She does it in an abusive way and I've spent enough energies trying to help her. Not only I do not get any recognition, I get crap... We are almost through anyway and the final straw does not have anything to do with this thread. So here's my opportunity for a proper exit. If it's something you can't deal with, then do have that proper exit. It will probably be the best for both of you.
whichwayisup Posted March 31, 2008 Posted March 31, 2008 Are you close with her family? You might want to encourage her to talk to them and make sure she does get counselling in. I know it isn't your responsibility, but when you do end it and leave, she might have a real hard time being alone and functioning without you - That's why she needs a strong support group around her now.
Author guy.lepage Posted March 31, 2008 Author Posted March 31, 2008 Are you close with her family? You might want to encourage her to talk to them and make sure she does get counselling in. I know it isn't your responsibility, but when you do end it and leave, she might have a real hard time being alone and functioning without you - That's why she needs a strong support group around her now. I think her family is well aware of her issues and in fact they may have been contributing to it by being over protective and justifying everything she has done since she was a child. Her mom is her best friend. I should've known better right then. I'm not worried about the aftermath as I'm sure she will find someone quickly. In fact, I think she already has.
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