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Not miffed, but disappointed. I mean you sleep with a guy, you hope for a call back?

Anyway guys on here have posted about how they like a girl but she is too heavy, too big of breasts, etc. I DID like the guy before this, I was still feeling him out. I probably should have waited to sleep with him. I sincerely was wondering if men with "shortcomings" might be easier to reject a woman after sex, just wondering. The males at least gave me some insight into this, thanks.

And Lizzie and a FEW of the other women who weren't out to bash.

 

 

The wording of your title sounds like you are

 

trying to get in a dig at him by insulting the size of his manhood. It doesn't really seem like you sincerely want to know how he felt, so much as you want affirmation that he failed to call back because of his own "shortcomings" as opposed to yours. Were you miffed that he didn't call you back?

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I am actually starting to think that he was probably intimidated by me and thought I would dump him and he was just beating me to the punch to save his ego. Thanks' date=' Fonz.[/quote']

 

AD, you just keep believing what you need to believe to keep your enormous ego in check.

Any time I had the audacity to think that a guy stopped contacting me because he was "intimidated' by me, it took only a few weeks afterward to come back down to reality (after the bruises on my ego healed) to realize he just wasn't that interested.

Once again, I keep just getting shocked by the enormous disparity between the advice you give to other women on this forum (It's simple! he's just not that into you, if he was, he would be calling every day, bringing you flowers)

and how you try to reason around your own situation to thinking that YOU are the exception. No! He's really into you, the problem is just with HIM, he knows I am just too hot for him.

Is there any reason for you to believe, that you would be the exception, to any other woman on this forum for which you have advised?

And Fonz, no one hear is going to become a lesbian, but thanks for the suggestion. I love sex, and have it liberally, any damn time I want, and early on plenty, risks with not being taken seriously aside, to suit my own physical needs.

If you need to jump on someone's back about when & if they should have sex early on, look to the OP's early postings to other women.

She is apparently a "Rules Girl" who claims that no one should be having sex early on, or moving in with boyfriend, etc. without a marriage proposal or wedding ring.

Her opinion on the matter of casual sex only seems to change drastically, and in her favor, of course, when it applies to her.

And, if you want to talk catty, once again, read more of the OP's post to other women's threads

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Funny story. On Friday night I met a hottie in a bar, he approached me- we struck up a conversation.... he told me I was beautiful and interesting, wanted to get to know me better..... He was charming and said all the right things- I was super attracted to him, but I wasn't going to go home and bang some stranger I just met at a bar. So I told him if he wanted, I'd give him my number and we could go out sometime, but I wanted to give him the opportunity to walk away if all he wanted was to take me home and bang me.

 

It was getting close to last call, and I didn't want to lead him on if all he wanted was sex- I wanted to be upfront with where my head was at.

 

You know what he did? He kissed me on the cheek, thanked me for my honesty and went off to the dance floor to find someone who would screw him. I found that really amusing- but wasn't surprised or offended by it.

 

He came back at last call to try and get my number- but I politely declined and left by myself.

 

The bottom line is that he was a guy on the prowl who wanted to get laid. I am positive that if I had have banged him I would never had heard from him again. Who can blame the guy for trying? I certainly don't.

 

I also don't take it personally that he walked away. If I had have made the choice to take him home and sleep with him... I'd fully expect to never hear from him again.

 

I was sucked in by charm in my younger years- and I slept with people once or twice who said all the right things but didn't care about me. I just choose not to do that anymore. SOmetimes it's just about getting laid for people, that's the bottom line.

 

So, he didn't call after. Who knows what the reasons truly are.

 

If you really like someone- just wait it out to see if his intentions match yours.

 

Small pee pee or not.... he has needs too, and he went after them.

 

You don't seem to broken up over it- so just take what you learned from this experience and take a different route next time.

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Yeah, you guys are getting completely off topic. Yeah I get all that. However, I do know he was physically attracted to me and thought I was beautiful. I really just wondered if it was at all possible that a small d**k could cause embarrassment enough to not call back and actually some guys and a few women have assured me that yes, it is very possible.

 

Funny story. On Friday night I met a hottie in a bar, he approached me- we struck up a conversation.... he told me I was beautiful and interesting, wanted to get to know me better..... He was charming and said all the right things- I was super attracted to him, but I wasn't going to go home and bang some stranger I just met at a bar. So I told him if he wanted, I'd give him my number and we could go out sometime, but I wanted to give him the opportunity to walk away if all he wanted was to take me home and bang me.

 

It was getting close to last call, and I didn't want to lead him on if all he wanted was sex- I wanted to be upfront with where my head was at.

 

You know what he did? He kissed me on the cheek, thanked me for my honesty and went off to the dance floor to find someone who would screw him. I found that really amusing- but wasn't surprised or offended by it.

 

He came back at last call to try and get my number- but I politely declined and left by myself.

 

The bottom line is that he was a guy on the prowl who wanted to get laid. I am positive that if I had have banged him I would never had heard from him again. Who can blame the guy for trying? I certainly don't.

 

I also don't take it personally that he walked away. If I had have made the choice to take him home and sleep with him... I'd fully expect to never hear from him again.

 

I was sucked in by charm in my younger years- and I slept with people once or twice who said all the right things but didn't care about me. I just choose not to do that anymore. SOmetimes it's just about getting laid for people, that's the bottom line.

 

So, he didn't call after. Who knows what the reasons truly are.

 

If you really like someone- just wait it out to see if his intentions match yours.

 

Small pee pee or not.... he has needs too, and he went after them.

 

You don't seem to broken up over it- so just take what you learned from this experience and take a different route next time.

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Little Shy, I know you are having problems with your swinging guy who recently told you he usually goes for women who are smaller than you, so I will forgive your rantings, but you are totally off-topic here.

I was simply asking if it is a possibility that a small dick could cause a guy to be embarrassed to call again. I have been assured from some guys that it is totally possible.

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I just wanted to clarify that Fonz was right, I wasn't really looking for a LTR anyway, really just someone to have fun with, plus we have common interests and maybe an FWB, I wasn't even sure about it yet. He is also 6 years younger and I was a little bit put off about that (although I look 6 years younger, he was amazed when I told him my age, as people always are.)

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AD, I'm sorry that you got stood up. I hardly think it had anything to do with his "size" otherwise he wouldn't be so quick to initiate intercourse with you. And normally when guys are insecure, it shows in their behaviour. I remember my ex used to be insecure about his size even though his wasn't all that small.

 

Reading all the previous threads tell me that you're looking for a reason to vindicate why a guy like him would stopped contacting you ( you admitted that you were beautiful and tight and whatnot). I think this topic had more to do with how your ego was bursted because you got dumped by a guy that you had no significant feelings for in the first place. You can't stand for that. Admit it or not, if you're weren't that interested in him the first place, you wouldn't go through all this time trying to justify his actions by bashing his size. You would've gotten over it fairly easily and start seeing other guys.

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He might've sensed that you're the kind of chick that would post about how insubstantial his manhood is on a public message board.

 

Sounds to me like: "My friends, family and doctors all say that I've pretty much the tightest vagina on earth, with the exception of a rare breed of hedgehog. I'm also indescribably good looking. So, how dare this tiny-dicked scumbag not call me back? I am so far out of his league -- you don't even know -- that it just blows my mind. Could it be that he didn't call me back because I am so awesome in every way and he is a tiny-dicked, abject failure?"

 

If he did pickup some messed up vibes from you, one can only hope that he keeps running. If he just used you, then he's a piece of crap. But either way, you're totally awesome.

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Some of you girls stated that you dont need (cant use) measuring tape but you are sure about those 2,3,4 inch ones.

 

Let me tell you this. You cant tell what an inch looks like.

 

Do you know why women cant park a car without a crash?

 

Because they think this:----------------------------------- is 10 inches.

 

:D

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Funny story. On Friday night I met a hottie in a bar, he approached me- we struck up a conversation.... he told me I was beautiful and interesting, wanted to get to know me better..... He was charming and said all the right things- I was super attracted to him, but I wasn't going to go home and bang some stranger I just met at a bar. So I told him if he wanted, I'd give him my number and we could go out sometime, but I wanted to give him the opportunity to walk away if all he wanted was to take me home and bang me.

 

It was getting close to last call, and I didn't want to lead him on if all he wanted was sex- I wanted to be upfront with where my head was at.

 

You know what he did? He kissed me on the cheek, thanked me for my honesty and went off to the dance floor to find someone who would screw him. I found that really amusing- but wasn't surprised or offended by it.

 

He came back at last call to try and get my number- but I politely declined and left by myself.

 

The bottom line is that he was a guy on the prowl who wanted to get laid. I am positive that if I had have banged him I would never had heard from him again. Who can blame the guy for trying? I certainly don't.

 

I also don't take it personally that he walked away. If I had have made the choice to take him home and sleep with him... I'd fully expect to never hear from him again.

 

I was sucked in by charm in my younger years- and I slept with people once or twice who said all the right things but didn't care about me. I just choose not to do that anymore. SOmetimes it's just about getting laid for people, that's the bottom line.

 

So, he didn't call after. Who knows what the reasons truly are.

 

If you really like someone- just wait it out to see if his intentions match yours.

 

Small pee pee or not.... he has needs too, and he went after them.

 

You don't seem to broken up over it- so just take what you learned from this experience and take a different route next time.

 

 

So you were chatting and then you told him that you would like to see him again so you can give him your number but if everything he wants of you is ONS that he better not waste his time? Am I right? And then he came back for the number and you declined?

 

I dont get it.

 

What have you told him exactly?

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"My friends, family and doctors all say that I've pretty much the tightest vagina on earth, with the exception of a rare breed of hedgehog. I'm also indescribably good looking. So, how dare this tiny-dicked scumbag not call me back? I am so far out of his league -- you don't even know -- that it just blows my mind. Could it be that he didn't call me back because I am so awesome in every way and he is a tiny-dicked, abject failure?"

 

Roflcopter. :lmao:

 

*cough* *focus*

 

He didn't enjoy the sex enough to do it again. Maybe he met an even tighter girl, if possible, and went with her. Maybe this night was the most glorious night he ever had and he doesn't want to do it ever again to cherish the memory.

 

Basically: He just wasn't into you. Which is good for you, there are better and bigger men out there. You go, girl!

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Hey, fair enough. Thanks for your insight. You're sitting around alone on a Sunday evening after spring break before you have to go to work again and face 100 13 year olds and thoughts get exaggerated. I appreciate your honest (and non-bashing, nonharsh) insight.

 

AD, I'm sorry that you got stood up. I hardly think it had anything to do with his "size" otherwise he wouldn't be so quick to initiate intercourse with you. And normally when guys are insecure, it shows in their behaviour. I remember my ex used to be insecure about his size even though his wasn't all that small.

 

Reading all the previous threads tell me that you're looking for a reason to vindicate why a guy like him would stopped contacting you ( you admitted that you were beautiful and tight and whatnot). I think this topic had more to do with how your ego was bursted because you got dumped by a guy that you had no significant feelings for in the first place. You can't stand for that. Admit it or not, if you're weren't that interested in him the first place, you wouldn't go through all this time trying to justify his actions by bashing his size. You would've gotten over it fairly easily and start seeing other guys.

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If a woman has had sex with more than one guy, it is not difficult to let you know what a small dick is. Sorry but yes, we can. Just like you can tell if a woman has big or small breasts. It's not rocket science. Now you're trying to accuse us of not being able to gauge large or small. Sorry, this is something you can't hide from a woman.

Like I said, this guy felt like a slender regular tampon. I can't tell I have those things in at all when I'm wearing them. My hand is small in width. I'm going to my sewing kit to get my measuring tape right now.

 

OK, I just measured. The width of my hand is exactly 3 inches and a half. His penis did not reach the length of the width of my hand when I wrapped my hand around his penis. It WAS erect. I defintely know that because shortly after I wrapped my hand around his penis, we had sex. It was definitely erect, I know and understand erect perfectly well.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Some of you girls stated that you dont need (cant use) measuring tape but you are sure about those 2,3,4 inch ones.

 

Let me tell you this. You cant tell what an inch looks like.

 

Do you know why women cant park a car without a crash?

 

Because they think this:----------------------------------- is 10 inches.

 

:D

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True, he just that into me (both literally and figuratively), I accept that. I admit I was starting to like him. So sue me. I was simply exploring the topic of is it possible he could have been embarrassed to call back because of his small size of his penis, a topic I hadn't seen delineated on Loveshack.org before.

 

I have actually been assured by some male posters that it is absolutely possible and this guy, at age 35 and never been married, does the hit and run so he doesn't have to deal with the size issue with romantic interests so he never lets himself get serious with them.

 

OK, why is it funny when a woman on here doesn't get a call and wonders about it yet if a guy gets rejected romantically the women are bitches and something is wrong with them?

 

Roflcopter. :lmao:

 

*cough* *focus*

 

He didn't enjoy the sex enough to do it again. Maybe he met an even tighter girl, if possible, and went with her. Maybe this night was the most glorious night he ever had and he doesn't want to do it ever again to cherish the memory.

 

Basically: He just wasn't into you. Which is good for you, there are better and bigger men out there. You go, girl!

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Yeah' date=' he only had a half an hour though. He did check me out up and down though and stop to chat, he didn't have to do that, could've just said hi and rushed off to his place.[/quote']

 

Is it possible he was just being polite? He can have accomplished what he wanted to, but has no issues exchanging pleasantries. And just because a guy checks you out up and down doesn't mean they want to date you, be with you, ect ect. A half an hour is more then enough time to make plans to see you again, or establish that he'd like to see you again.

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Do you think his small d**k made him back off?

 

Surely not, if he backed off more than an inch and a half, well what would be the point?

 

I'll bet there are whole load of men reading this thread with horror!

 

Little nodules and large giblets? When was love making making an exercise in capacities? :)

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Being dumped by a short dicked guy must have hurt.

 

He probably sensed your kind, loving and tolerant personality.

 

Never happened to me. Thats probably because I dont date guys and I search first any girl that might be a transvestite.

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Yeah' date=' you guys are getting completely off topic. Yeah I get all that. However, I do know he was physically attracted to me and thought I was beautiful. I really just wondered if it was at all possible that a small d**k could cause embarrassment enough to not call back and actually some guys and a few women have assured me that yes, it is very possible.[/quote']

 

Have you stopped and considered that maybe he DIDN'T find you so wonderfully attractive? Maybe he liked what he saw with clothes on, but not off? Maybe he thought you were physically hot, but your personality sucked - so he got laid and is moving to find a girl who he's attracted to on that level. Maybe he just wanted to get laid and was saying what he needed to - to do this? I'm not trying to be harsh, but regardless of how attractive a person is, there will still be a person who doesn't find you that attractive.

 

Little Shy, I know you are having problems with your swinging guy who recently told you he usually goes for women who are smaller than you, so I will forgive your rantings, but you are totally off-topic here.

I was simply asking if it is a possibility that a small dick could cause a guy to be embarrassed to call again. I have been assured from some guys that it is totally possible.

 

There is no need to bash on her for giving her insight.

 

I just wanted to clarify that Fonz was right' date=' I wasn't really looking for a LTR anyway, really just someone to have fun with, plus we have common interests and maybe an FWB, I wasn't even sure about it yet. He is also 6 years younger and I was a little bit put off about that (although I look 6 years younger, he was amazed when I told him my age, as people always are.)[/quote']

 

If you weren't looking for anything but sex, then just go find a new guy that has a bigger penis and quit blaming his manhood for why he hasn't called.

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I'll bet there are whole load of men reading this thread with horror!

 

My feminine part of brain sense this was exactly the reason for this post.

 

If a guy wrote something about girl not wanting to see him again because she was loose or had small boobs. Well, he would be flagged, tortured and sent to Gitmo at least. And I wouldnt mind for he was an self centered stupid ignorant azzhole.

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I'm convinced it's because of her big vagina. No woman wants to admit it's a cavernous pit because it sullies her belief that she's still a virgin.

 

Even if this guy was hung like a field mouse he would have been too self conscious to have attempted.

 

I remember this whenever this topic comes up:

 

Man of normal sized weewee pulls it out.

 

Woman with cavernous pit of a vagina: " Who the hell are you going to please with that thing?"

 

Man with normal sized weewee: "Me."

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My feminine part of brain sense this was exactly the reason for this post.

 

 

Sorry for the delay in responding I was looking for a measuring device small enough?

 

There is no key on my keyboard to disply microns.........

 

Still looking.....

 

Maybe it will warm up in here while I look.......

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Sorry for the delay in responding I was looking for a measuring device small enough?

 

There is no key on my keyboard to disply microns.........

 

Still looking.....

 

Maybe it will warm up in here while I look.......

 

I dint meant your post. I meant her post. The Origina post.

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My feminine part of brain sense this was exactly the reason for this post.

 

If a guy wrote something about girl not wanting to see him again because she was loose or had small boobs. Well, he would be flagged, tortured and sent to Gitmo at least. And I wouldnt mind for he was an self centered stupid ignorant azzhole.

 

Hu Dan, honey, none of the guys were really flaming her, but many of the girls did. In their own subtle ways. Did you miss that?

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Hu Dan, honey, none of the guys were really flaming her, but many of the girls did. In their own subtle ways. Did you miss that?

 

I havent missed that. I just think the flaming could be more swift and overt regardless of gender. And that was the real reason of my post to flame more overtly. Not flaming those who dont flame :)

And Im certainly not a NO-DOUBLE-STANDARDS type of guy, so Im cool.

 

Your my sunshine Kamillie, really.

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He might've sensed that you're the kind of chick that would post about how insubstantial his manhood is on a public message board.

 

Sounds to me like: "My friends, family and doctors all say that I've pretty much the tightest vagina on earth, with the exception of a rare breed of hedgehog. I'm also indescribably good looking. So, how dare this tiny-dicked scumbag not call me back? I am so far out of his league -- you don't even know -- that it just blows my mind. Could it be that he didn't call me back because I am so awesome in every way and he is a tiny-dicked, abject failure?"

 

If he did pickup some messed up vibes from you, one can only hope that he keeps running. If he just used you, then he's a piece of crap. But either way, you're totally awesome.

 

 

:laugh::D:laugh: Classic. And most likely correct.

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