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The more I read, I'm beginning to think it wasn't his ego that caused him to back out, but hers.

 

Oh, no, I'm very humble in person. I don't brag about myself at all. I was focusing most of the conversation that night on him. On a board like this I'm just going to give all the honest details to get the full story out there.

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I'm staying with big vagina.

 

No, his penis was really small. I know the difference between a large, medium, and small penis.

I also know that I am pretty tight. Otherwise, why would guys who sleep with me tell me "You're really tight! I love it!" I have been in longterm relationships lasting years so I do know this, and I know they all enjoyed the sex.

Just because you have a small one, Neanderthal, doesn't mean my vagina is big. I already know it's tight. Actually one guy said I was too tight.

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Is all this talk about bad sex with small dicks striking a nerve Neanderthal?

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Is all this talk about bad sex with small dicks striking a nerve Neanderthal?

 

 

:lmao: I was thinking the same thing..

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So afterward I stated "That was a great present, too!" He seemed upbeat afterward and when I tried to put on my panties he stated 'I prefer you naked.'

Maybe he just wanted sex, I don't know.

Oh well, at least it was only a few dates and I wasn't too emotionally invested.

Maybe if he was sensitive to his penis size, you saying "that was a great present" he took the wrong way and thought you were being sarcastic and making fun of his penis. That and I'm sure he felt that you weren't as into it as he was - You have admitted that you weren't too emotionally invested. Chances are, he picked up on that energy and now has changed his mind about seeing you again.

 

Anyway, what does it matter at the end of the day? You don't really "like" him, if you were very into him, all that is going on inside your head would have been talked about already. You would have laid it all out on the line for this guy...You haven't and neither has he.

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Or if you say 'Is it in yet?' maybe he got embarassed and won't call you again.. ;)

 

We wouldn't have that problem Lizzie. Just a FYI. By the way, I like your profile pic you're the right size top and bottom :laugh:.

 

I don't have any experience with being too small, but I one time I was having so much sex with different girls and I was drinking heavy and hooked up with another girl and I wasn't feeling her and had a case of "whiskey dick". I was too embarassed to see her again even if I wanted to. I'm embarassed to admit this even happened here actually. So i'm going to say he probably is too embarassed to se you again.

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OK I'm gonna have to know the size of this guys penis. After that as a guy I can tell you if I would be self consious about it. I know you don't want to disrespect him buy putting his business on here but lets face it look how far this has already gone. If he read what was on here now you would be screwed anywyas. I think the men will be able to give you a better opinion with this information.

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Thank you, whichwayisup. I don't think he took the statement about the present wrong. But you have made me feel better, also. It's a little difficult because he lives in my apartment complex and I did see him because the garbage dumpster is in front of his building and only 2 buildings away from mine and I saw him while taking out the garbage. He's a softball coach and he had his softball gear on so I said "getting back from a game?" and he stated "Yes. Double header. taking a little break now." I stated "Did you win the first game?" He said "yes, in extra innings!" Then I walked away and he said "See you!" So at least we had a pleasant exchange and I was proud of myself for not bringing up his not calling thing.

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You had sex with him after 2 weeks.

He's just not that into you, Sorry!

 

 

Yeah she should've waited maybe a year or 2 or more. And if she or the guy hadn't moved on to someone else, they could've went ahead and had sex. His penis wouldn't have gotten any bigger and the same out come most likely would've happened, she was disasitisfied and he was too embarassed to contact her again. Only now there'd be more emotional invest on both sides and the separation would've been harder to take. Yeah she should've waited much longer. Not!

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He was a little over two inches and not much girth. Let's put it this way, it felt like a tampon inside, like a regular sized, I really couldn't feel it. And I have other men to compare to where I could feel it. My last serious boyfriend was average sized and I could really feel him in there and we had awesome sex. I could NOT feel this guy in there.But he DID come, he did not fake that, either because he pulled out and came on my stomach (no condom and he wanted to be 100% sure, even though I told him I was on the pill, which I am.) So he did come so there was enough friction for HIM, I just couldn't feel it from a female standpoint.

Thank you for understanding, I am just giving details here. I appreciate you giving your unbiased insight into this matter.

I'm pretty sure he's doesn't know this website and if he does, he wouldn't figure this out, there are lots of softball coaches out there.

 

OK I'm gonna have to know the size of this guys penis. After that as a guy I can tell you if I would be self consious about it. I know you don't want to disrespect him buy putting his business on here but lets face it look how far this has already gone. If he read what was on here now you would be screwed anywyas. I think the men will be able to give you a better opinion with this information.
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What size do ladies consider a small dick? and somebody mentioned seeing one 2 inches erect? is that for real?

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What size do ladies consider a small dick? and somebody mentioned seeing one 2 inches erect? is that for real?

 

The first guy I slept with - and kept as a FWB for years - had a small dick and it was really not a hindrance. The guy knew how to work it. I would say it was probably 3 inches erect. Not much girth.

 

As in all things in life, dick size matters to some women but not all.

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What size do ladies consider a small dick? and somebody mentioned seeing one 2 inches erect? is that for real?

it has been 2 weeks now so I am really having to think back but I will say 3 inches tops (erect.) I have small hands and when I wrapped my hand around his penis, the erect penis did not reach the other side of my hand.

Ok, this guy is 2 inches shorter than I am, also. (I am 5'7"). But I have dated other short guys and they still had bigger penises so I know this is not an issue.

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What size do ladies consider a small dick? and somebody mentioned seeing one 2 inches erect? is that for real?

 

I've seen a lot of small dicks in the last 6 years (massage) lol

For me, a small dick is anything under 5 in...

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OH MY GOD are you guys positive they were that small? did you measure them? I think your supposed to start from the top of the shaft wear the base meets the like groin/bladder area

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The first guy I slept with - and kept as a FWB for years - had a small dick and it was really not a hindrance. The guy knew how to work it. I would say it was probably 3 inches erect. Not much girth.

 

As in all things in life, dick size matters to some women but not all.

 

Hey, Kamille, you bring up a good point. He didn't really try to touch me or please me at all beforehand. He was just making out with me naked basically. I think that would have made a difference.

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OH MY GOD are you guys positive they were that small? did you measure them?

 

 

Hey hey.. come on.. now .. do you need a measuring tape to know how 4 in. 5 in. 6 in. etc.. look like.. my.. my..

 

I don't.. I have a good eye for measurement. :laugh:

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You had unprotected sex with someone that you've known for two weeks? Yeesh. I think why he hasn't called you back should be the least of your worries, hon. Have ya heard of STD's?

 

For all you know, he considers you trashy for having bareback sex with a (relative) stranger, and has backed off from you for that reason alone, as he wouldn't pursue a relationship with a girl who does that (er, if I was a guy, I wouldn't either, as I would assume you do that with EVERY guy - eww). Or, it could be that you're not as great in bed as you may think you are. Or, that you are not as tight as you think you are (guys lie to girls about that much as women tell men they have big dicks or they are the best in bed when they don't or aren't). lol I'm not saying that you're NOT a hot lay, but... point is, don't be so quick to throw it all on him. There are plenty of good reasons why he doesn't want to see you again, and none of them have to do with his cashew-sized dick.

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That was kind of harsh jilly bean, sometimes things just happen. (not that I'm advocating unprotected sex) anyways I realy thought it was a myth that there were men with erect penises shorter then 5 inches. i thought that was a myth. I can't imagine how sex would even be possible. speaking of myths (or at least what i thought was a myth) Anbody have experience with femal ejjaculation? How to guys get women to do this ?!

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I'm not throwing it all on him. I actually posted the question because I was still interested and wondering the ever posted question "why hasn't he called?" We discussed the "unprotected sex" thing, and I had had a full STD test including HIV test in January along with my yearly pap and had not had sex since then. Since I lived so close, I offered to go back and show him my 'paper.' He himself stated that he hadn't dated in a while and was monogamous in his last relationship.

I understand about STD's, he's a middle school PE/Health teacher, and he teaches sex ed. to his students so he gets it, too.

I do know I'm pretty tight, though. My gynecologist will even verify this, she has said so, also. I am simply giving honest details here.

 

You had unprotected sex with someone that you've known for two weeks? Yeesh. I think why he hasn't called you back should be the least of your worries, hon. Have ya heard of STD's?

 

For all you know, he considers you trashy for having bareback sex with a (relative) stranger, and has backed off from you for that reason alone, as he wouldn't pursue a relationship with a girl who does that (er, if I was a guy, I wouldn't either, as I would assume you do that with EVERY guy - eww). Or, it could be that you're not as great in bed as you may think you are. Or, that you are not as tight as you think you are (guys lie to girls about that much as women tell men they have big dicks or they are the best in bed when they don't or aren't). lol I'm not saying that you're NOT a hot lay, but... point is, don't be so quick to throw it all on him. There are plenty of good reasons why he doesn't want to see you again, and none of them have to do with his cashew-sized dick.

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Yes, he is pretty small, DEFINITELY no larger than 3 inches. However I would like to add that he is pretty self-confident sexually because we were making out and he stated "It's up to you to stop if you want to." So maybe he doesn't have an issue with his small dick.

His last girlfriend was last summer, maybe he's still getting over her or something.

Could be a multitude of reasons, I guess.

 

That was kind of harsh jilly bean, sometimes things just happen. (not that I'm advocating unprotected sex) anyways I realy thought it was a myth that there were men with erect penises shorter then 5 inches. i thought that was a myth. I can't imagine how sex would even be possible.
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Hmm... most people are knocking you a bit here but I understand. I was once with a guy that was so freakishly small i couldn't feel a thing. And no, as someone posted here I do not have a big vagina and I'm sure you don't too. It was not a deal breaker but a bit of a dissapointment.

 

As far as why he hasn't called... I'm sure it has nothing to do with the sex. Could he just be playing hard to get? Not wanting to look desperate? You didn't give too many details about the relationship so I'm not sure. If he is such a pig that he's not gonna call you after you had sex then he's not worth it anyway.

 

You don't seem too broken up about it, so don't worry about it. Sex isn't everything, but it's important in a relationship. If you guys did have something long term you probably wouldn't be happy with your sex life anyway.

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Thanks, shanny. I was just having an unbiased discussion about a topic that I was wondering about. Jilly has lots of men issues and was taking it out on me, but that's OK, I understand.

Thanks for understanding and I have decided to just move on from it for good. I was thinking about that, too, what if I really fell for him and he fell for me, but I couldn't enjoy sex with him? Good point!

 

Hmm... most people are knocking you a bit here but I understand. I was once with a guy that was so freakishly small i couldn't feel a thing. And no, as someone posted here I do not have a big vagina and I'm sure you don't too. It was not a deal breaker but a bit of a dissapointment.

 

As far as why he hasn't called... I'm sure it has nothing to do with the sex. Could he just be playing hard to get? Not wanting to look desperate? You didn't give too many details about the relationship so I'm not sure. If he is such a pig that he's not gonna call you after you had sex then he's not worth it anyway.

 

You don't seem too broken up about it, so don't worry about it. Sex isn't everything, but it's important in a relationship. If you guys did have something long term you probably wouldn't be happy with your sex life anyway.

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If his penis is in fact 2 inches erect with not much girth he jsut might be self consious about it. I'm sure he could tell you were not feeling any thing even though he was able to cum. Ask yourself how sex with him could becom pleasurable (frankly I'd like to know because whatever psoitions make you feel something with him might make women feel allot with me) I think its good you gusy had a pleasent exchange. I'm sure he could tell you were concerned about the distance. Maybe that is reassuring to him. give it a little more time before you bring these concerns up. the right time will come.

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Hey, messenger, he really did want me to be on top so that must be something that the women enjoy with him. He really did want to do the me on top thing. The first time I felt a little self conscious doing the me on top position, though. That is usually left for 2nd time sex with me, lol. But with average to larger sized guys like yourself, I do find it easier to come with myself on top. Come to think of it, I should have just done what he was requesting, me on top. I feel bad now. Oh well. I really do like the guy. I hope we can be good friends because he plays tennis and we were excited to find that common interest.

 

If his penis is in fact 2 inches erect with not much girth he jsut might be self consious about it. I'm sure he could tell you were not feeling any thing even though he was able to cum. Ask yourself how sex with him could becom pleasurable (frankly I'd like to know because whatever psoitions make you feel something with him might make women feel allot with me) I think its good you gusy had a pleasent exchange. I'm sure he could tell you were concerned about the distance. Maybe that is reassuring to him. give it a little more time before you bring these concerns up. the right time will come.
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