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Do you think his small d**k made him back off?


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I was dating a guy and I was starting to like him so I slept with him after 2 weeks. The sex was bad and his thing was so small I literally couldn't feel it in me. However, I did like him and figured we could work around this and I am not superficial.

However, he didn't call me back after I slept with him. Now I know the problem isn't me, as all men I have had sex with before had said I was great in bed, I am pretty much known for this, and I have never had any kids and am known for being pretty tight if you know what I mean. So...it was not me that was the problem in bed, it was his small thing. However, he did come so I do know he at least wasn't so small as to not get enough friction to do that.

OK, do you think his ego about his small d**k caused him to back off after we slept together? I did want to see him again.

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OK' date=' do you think his ego about his small d**k caused him to back off after we slept together? I did want to see him again.[/quote']

 

How are we supposed to know? We don't know this guy. If you gave him any indication that his dick was too small for you, you can bet you'll never hear from him again. However, if your attitude was positive and your last parting was mature and mannerly you will surely hear from him unless he is a player.

 

He wouldn't have gone to bed with you in the first place if he thought his small penis would hamper his success with you. If you don't hear from him, it's more likely he just doesn't want a relationship with you...or he may very well fear that at some point his small penis will play a roll in the demise of any relationship he could create with you.

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I hope he wont call you. For his own sake.

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Maybe you were riding him, moaning... thinking it was in, and it wasn't ...so he figured you were faking to have pleasure.. :o

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Are you sure it's small d1ck or big vagina?

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Are you sure it's small d1ck or big vagina?

 

 

No.. I know what she means.. when the guy is about 2 in. erected.. that IS a small dick.. not a big vagina...

 

I had one guy like this once.. it's painful.. :laugh:

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He may have back off because of his small penis. If you were sending signals to him to let him know that you weren't getting satisfied the way that you wanted, then yes, he may have been embarrassed. Was you into it, or was you just laying there?

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Thanks, Tony T. I was actually very mature and mannerly. I did not bring up his smallness and in no way stated it was a problem. He did state beforehand "You are just so SUPER attractive!" I think that he might have been a bit intimidated by that.

Also, afterward, he grabbed my upper arm and said "Wow, you really have been working out."

I am self conscious because I do want to tone up my arms more.

Oh well I guess I'll just have to let it go and remember the 2 weeks we had dating. You made me feel better, Tony T. :)

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Are you sure it's small d1ck or big vagina?

 

Kegel's man, Kegel's.... I've had a few of those and I've got girth and I was going WTF?? :D

 

OP, just let things ride, so to speak. He might have been waiting to pull out the rest of the arsenal after he checked your response to the first assault ;)

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OK, do you think his ego about his small d**k caused him to back off after we slept together?

 

Maybe he was just interested in hit and run sex and wouldn't have called you back regardless?

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The sex was bad and his thing was so small I literally couldn't feel it in me... do you think his ego about his small d**k caused him to back off after we slept together?

 

No, probably because the sex was bad.

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Or if you say 'Is it in yet?' maybe he got embarassed and won't call you again.. ;)

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He may have back off because of his small penis. If you were sending signals to him to let him know that you weren't getting satisfied the way that you wanted, then yes, he may have been embarrassed. Was you into it, or was you just laying there?

 

That is a good question. It was our first time and a bit awkward. He wanted me to be on top but I wanted traditional missionary for the first time. But I felt like I was getting into it and I wasn't just laying there, as much as you can do that with missionary. But I couldn't really wiggle too much or he would fall out, he was that small, as Lizzie stated.

It happened to be my birthday evening, and he had gotten me a small present, the type of thing you get someone knowing them only 2 weeks.

So afterward I stated "That was a great present, too!" He seemed upbeat afterward and when I tried to put on my panties he stated 'I prefer you naked.'

Maybe he just wanted sex, I don't know.

Oh well, at least it was only a few dates and I wasn't too emotionally invested.

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Eh, this may sound harsh, but just because a guy wants to have sex with you doesn't mean that he wants to have a relationship with you. Perhaps his goal was accomplished. End of game.

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You had sex with him after 2 weeks.

He's just not that into you, Sorry!

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Maybe he was just interested in hit and run sex and wouldn't have called you back regardless?

This is probably the case. Dine and dashers will run like the wind, after they get it once. Another notch on their...small d*ck?

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The sex was bad and his thing was so small I literally couldn't feel it in me... do you think his ego about his small d**k caused him to back off after we slept together?

 

No, probably because the sex was bad.

 

It was bad for me because I couldn't feel anything. He seemed to enjoy it, though.

And for carhill, etc. I already explained in my opening thread it's not me, I KNOW I'm tight from past relationships. The last guy I was with for 4 months stated I was the best sex EVER. I do do kegels and I'm naturally tight anyway. Believe me, I already know this, the same as if you yourself know if you have a big or small dick or not, for realz.

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You had sex with him after 2 weeks.

He's just not that into you, Sorry!

 

Ummm, no, he was really into how attractive I was (he stated so) and my slim, athletic size 4 figure. I know it's not that. :)

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Or if you say 'Is it in yet?' maybe he got embarassed and won't call you again.. ;)

Or visit a divorce lawyer ;)

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Maybe he just wasn't interested. I think assuming it was about the sex is overanalyzing. Unless he's retarded, a guy isn't going to ditch a girl just because the sex isn't mind-blowing the first time. Sex always improves initially.

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I doubt it's the size of his dick, since he's probably known for longer then you have that he is on the small side of the scale.

 

Move on. I don't see how trying to figure out what's wrong with him is going to help you.

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I doubt it's the size of his dick, since he's probably known for longer then you have that he is on the small side of the scale.

 

Move on. I don't see how trying to figure out what's wrong with him is going to help you.

I completely agree with this. Small d*ck or not, he's unavailable so it's best to put that energy back into yourself and start the moving on process.

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Thank you for your insights. I am moving on. Thanks.

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The more I read, I'm beginning to think it wasn't his ego that caused him to back out, but hers.

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I'm staying with big vagina.

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