odilians10 Posted March 29, 2008 Posted March 29, 2008 after almost 2 years, about 8 months ago i ended it with my ex, becos he started acting all weired, like forgetting we were suppose to hang out right before i went back to sch. he ignored all my calls\text for 6months, then about 2 months ago he finally called me and i neva heard from him after that... about 2 weeks ago we decided to see each other, so i thought it would be ok to call him, i've tried calling him 3X, he had not returned any of my calls, i dont know what to think of this...i do really miss him and was hoping after seeing each other things would get better.
carhill Posted March 29, 2008 Posted March 29, 2008 He was checking your interest level IMO. Sounds like another breakup regret situation... take comfort in the reality that you will grow out of this stage. The calvary will be here shortly
Author odilians10 Posted April 1, 2008 Author Posted April 1, 2008 thanks for ur reply, does it mean i should just let him go, or is he going to come around soon
carhill Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 Yes, I'd let him go. If he calls again, don't go out of your way to accommodate him.
justine4 Posted April 1, 2008 Posted April 1, 2008 after almost 2 years, about 8 months ago i ended it with my ex, becos he started acting all weired, like forgetting we were suppose to hang out right before i went back to sch. he ignored all my calls\text for 6months, then about 2 months ago he finally called me and i neva heard from him after that... about 2 weeks ago we decided to see each other, so i thought it would be ok to call him, i've tried calling him 3X, he had not returned any of my calls, i dont know what to think of this...i do really miss him and was hoping after seeing each other things would get better. I would say it was a boost to his ego you keeping showing an interest and he lost that when you ceased calling so contacted you to see if you where still interested - everyone one likes to feel wanted, even if you don't necessarily want the person wanting you Sorry its not very re-assuring to hear, but don't fall into his silly ego boosting trip. If he's behaving like this, he's showing you no respect and thats no way to treat someone you are supposed to care about. Hope it all improves for you - am sure it will
Author odilians10 Posted April 1, 2008 Author Posted April 1, 2008 it is sad, but i agree with u...thou i do still have feelings for him which makes it even harder, but i'm doing very good with NC, ive not tried to contact him in over 2weeks and i'm keeping it like that.....i thought since i was the one who messed up i could make things right, i was kind of feeling guity for the way i treated him in the past, but if i keep holding on to him i'm definately hurting myself more...thanks for your response:)
LuCidiTy Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 a more positive way to put it is are you done with him. you ended it to begin with, probably for good reason. is he now all of a sudden worthyl? maybe not based on his lack of respect and courtesy.
Author odilians10 Posted April 2, 2008 Author Posted April 2, 2008 he's seen a pic of me with one of my guy friend and he sent me an email that i was showing off, why do he care who i'm in a pic with?????
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