suffragette13 Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 It's been about a month & a half since my x and I had sex. Then I found out about how he was working me, another woman and pining for a third. He hasn't even been back in my house since. I know that exsex is always a bad idea. But I am so...! I can't have some strange guy in and out around my kids. I won't do it. So he was a nice tool. It's nice to know that I can still rock his world if you know what I mean. I love my vibrator (German, very efficent) but they can't kiss. I think sex was the only reason I stayed with my x anyway. Sex & babies. I remember complaining about him bitterly. He didn't read, he had appalling taste in clothes and music, his sex drive could never keep up with mine. I think if I hadn't locked down he would still be around, ready to use me at his whim while he's practically living with someone else. The last time I approached him, he rejected me. That's why I started looking into what was going on and found out about these other girls. It changed my mind about him forever. Since I quit with all the chit chat, he has adopted that policy too. We only talk about the kids. It's much better. When i cut him off, he was so nasty and angry. But things have leveled out. It's just me. I'm so lonely and HORNY and shy and still slightly in love with him. Life sucks.
jmargel Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 The sex with him is not worth it.. Good chance you would catch a STD. I would recommend as well that you get checked.
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