Fluffybunny7 Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 Ok, so she hasn't said bye for good yet. But it sounds like that's what's going to happen. She's been off and on about it for the past couple of weeks or so, and she brought up a lot of stuff that I had no idea was bothering her. We're just taking a month off and then seeing what, but it sucks that it means that we skip our first anniversary (bad omen right?). I just wanna reach out to her or completely shut off; this relationship limbo is torture. I want her to choose me, but I feel that she probably wont. I know that whatever she chooses, it'll be for the best in the end, but it still hurts so much that I'm not even going to try and make a cheesy metaphor for it. Advice, support, and hugs? She's just so amazing. I guess... c'est la vie.
wonderinwhatsup Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 I still love my ex. I doubt that love will ever die. As you said everything will work out well in the end. Be sad, but happy that you're getting closer to finding another true love. We'll be there soon man. Have faith
Author Fluffybunny7 Posted March 28, 2008 Author Posted March 28, 2008 Thanks man. That means a lot to me.
Ofleg7 Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 *hug* I know it sucks right now, but only good can come of this
Author Fluffybunny7 Posted March 28, 2008 Author Posted March 28, 2008 Update: Now she's called me and told me that she doesn't want to take the time. She's says that she's been listening too much to her father. Great, but she's already done this so I'm pretty wary and trying to be cautious. I'm going to talk with her this weekend and hopefully get everything worked out for good... whichever way things happen to go.
stlnsmile Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 All I want to say is that I listened to my parents, and it messed up my relationship so I can understand where she is coming from, sometimes parents get way to involved. Help her to learn how to cope with them and the crap they are saying and still be with you. I don't know what your situation is, I mean hers.....with her parents, but if they are bad mouthing you, and she respects them, it puts her in a hard place. I wish like hell I had not listened to my parents, and not because I don't love them, but if I had know I would loose him forever.....I never would have. She's coming back and humbling herself and wants to be with you, I think she probably means it. Talk to her, find out what the heck is going on, every detail, don't let her stop until she tells you everything, and then help her......don't tell her what a screw up she is, don't hold it over her head. If my ex ever came back to me, which he won't, but if he did, I would do anything to work through whatever broke us up. I would be scared too, but I also know, I would not want to live my life knowing I had a chance and did not take it. I will never ever have that chance.
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