ARDriver01 Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 Okay, I've never been in a situation like this. Ever! I'm seeing a girl from out of my area. We've been exclusive for about a week. There is another girl that I was going to start dating, a good friend of me and my roommates. She found out that I was seeing someone exclusively yesterday. She told my roommate that she was dissapointed, however, she didn't want to be the rebound girl anyway. Lol. She came over last night, all of us hung out, ate carne asada, had some beers, went in the hot tub, watched some boxing on tv, etc... My roommates dicided to go to bed around 11pm, leaving us alone in my room. She was lying at the foot of my bed using my leg as a pillow. Hell, I thought, we're all good friends here, no problem right? We talked a little about old flames and heartache and whatnot. Later, around 1am, she asked if I wanted another beer, or if I needed to sleep. I thought for a few seconds and said I need to go to sleep, getting up early, whatever... She was like "Okay, AR, I have to use your restroom". She came out, gave me a huge hug and said good night. I dreamt that I was going back to the spa with her, she was topless and I was pretty turned on. We kissed and stuff and then my alarm went off. I felt dirty, like a total A-hole. I was totally confused and a little aroused. I go the bathroom to take a leak, I look over to my left and hanging from my shower is her red embroidered bikini. I almost choked. I kept telling myself while I brushed my teeth not to look at the design on the bikini. I was like "Don't look at it, don't look at it!" And a voice in my head was like "Hey, I bet it's really sexy, you should take a look..." And I'm like "No! Fu** you Satan!" Lol I went to work laughing at the whole situation. I mean the entire situation, my divorce, my stupid unappreciating wife and where I am now. I mean... What if my "girlfriend" came over today and saw that. It would totally be over with her. Most likely I'd get smacked. I can't explain that away! And the worst part about the whole thing is that I thought it was really hot for her to leave it there like she did. So, Women, Is that normal? Leaving traces? I think it's hillarious. You have to have strategy in mind when doing stuff like that. Lol. I would never think that far ahead. Like, I wouldn't think to leave my boxers or my Old Spice at some girls house to piss off another guy. Lol. Women are so great. So great! Gods finest creation. He must be genious. Ha ha! Oh please forgive me...
Author ARDriver01 Posted March 28, 2008 Author Posted March 28, 2008 Well, anyways, I thought it was funny... I'm getting confused and I don't know who I'd rather be with. I kinda complicated things by having sex with the other girl.
Kiss Dont Miss Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 Really funny situation, to be honest, the way you think of it. Analyze your feelings. Is that other girl is a turn-on for you? If you care about her, try to keep form the other one, though it'll be much more difficult now, after having sex. Best of luck!
DanielMadr Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 It is pretty funny:D especially how you put it. You know the saying....where Devil cant go.....sends a woman. Go on. Flame me, torch me, send thunder on my head for this blatant sexism, come on!
Covonia Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 Go on. Flame me, torch me, send thunder on my head for this blatant sexism, come on! Are you into bondage by any chance? To the OP- I think you've rushed into things, too quikcly and burnt yourself in the process. Rewind and rre-evaluate.
LosingMyDreamGirl Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 I clicked this link expecting a picture of me.
Author ARDriver01 Posted March 28, 2008 Author Posted March 28, 2008 To the OP- I think you've rushed into things, too quikcly and burnt yourself in the process. Rewind and rre-evaluate. Yeah, how exactly do I do that? My friends laugh at me, they say at least I got the sex thing taken care of first. I couldn't help it, she's so sexy.
LosingMyDreamGirl Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 Yeah, how exactly do I do that? My friends laugh at me, they say at least I got the sex thing taken care of first. I couldn't help it, she's so sexy. Date them both. I never thought I could do it after I got a divorce and I am kind of doing it now and having fun (though sex is not involved). You do not owe either of these women anything yet.
Covonia Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 You do not owe either of these women anything yet. He does as he is exclusive with one of the two. You might have to go back on the whole exclusivity thing until your mind is firmly made up. I'd just go back to dating both of the girls, but try and refrain from the sex and just see where the ride takes you. You acted on impluse which is one of the best things to do, if not one of the worst (contradictory alert!), but it's no good acting on impluse if you are having regrets. Personally if it was me, I'd stick with the girl you chose, you made that choice for reason didn't ya?
DanielMadr Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 Are you into bondage by any chance? Ive been patched once - I fell of the skateboard and I didnt like it very much. Why? Are you? Want to lie helpless in a mercy of hairy man, whispering in your ear and toying with your body? And whispering back"Oh, do whatever you want with me". Of course you do. You are a woman after all. Another sexism. Come on. At least flag me.
Covonia Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 Ive been patched once - I fell of the skateboard and I didnt like it very much. Why? Are you? Want to lie helpless in a mercy of hairy man, whispering in your ear and toying with your body? And whispering back"Oh, do whatever you want with me". Of course you do. You are a woman after all. Another sexism. Come on. At least flag me. I'm a male, not a woman.
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