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Trust my gut or no????


MissMaris

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It's wierd. I meet a guy who seems so great, but early on in our relationship my gut just felt bad around him.

 

I could never put my finger on it. Just had a lot of bad, uncomfortable feelings around him. Also, felt jealous a lot of the time and I am normally not a jealous person. Felt insecure and shaky about our relationship the whole time, even though he seemed totally in love with me, very committed to me,e tc.

 

My friends all said, 'trust your gut'

 

Well, I let things go on for over a year because I fell so hard in love with him. The whole time, he never treated me bad but things never felt 'right' either. Again, it's so hard to put my finger on what made things feel 'off' or not quite right, but I definitely had that gut feeling the whole time. I would wake up sometimes, with a feeling of dread in the pit of my stomach. I even practiced breaking up with him a bunch of times but never did. It made no sense

 

Finally I did it. I guesss I want to belive that my gut is right ....and really, my whole life it really has been,.

 

He is hurt and angry. I feel terrible for hurting him. I hope I did the right thing. Just wanted to knwo if anyone out there has also had those strong gut intstincts that something just wasn't right.

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