BigJ Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 If she finds the list, then you take a pen and write "snooping" under her bad qualities - right in front of her. Love you long time hamsum man. :lol:
Saxis Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 If she's digging around in my computer I don't care what she thinks anyway. Wow. If she finds the list, then you take a pen and write "snooping" under her bad qualities - right in front of her. I was hoping you weren't serious about a written, physical list. Is it really that hard to keep track of qualities that you like/dislike about people? Maybe I just have a knack for paying attention to detail. I definitely don't forget or overlook things I don't like...
Lovegod Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 what sort of relationship guidelines would you recommend? Just a few things to keep in mind. 1) YOU are the most important person in your life. If you don't exist, everyone else (including your woman) is irrelevent. Therefore, you must take care of yourself primarily. 2) A woman will never be happy 100% of the time, so don't try to achieve this goal. She will get pissy and cause drama just for the sake of an emotional change. Let her go through her little event and tell her to let you know when she's calmed down. She will. 3) Romance is a spice to enhance the relationship. If you base your relationship on romance, she will get tired and bored of it. Look at it this way, would you want to eat an entire bowl of salt? No, but adding salt to an existing meal will make it taste better. 4) Stand up for yourself. If you let her take advantage of you even once, she will do it repeatedly. If you try to stop it after it has gone on for too long, it will be too late. You will have spoiled her, and she will expect you to continue spoiling her. At that point, you must end the relationship. 5) Keep her a bit on the edge when you're going to have sex with her. Don't always do the same position, the same order, the same climax. Change positions, don't always climax, don't always make her climax, and occasionally turn down her offer for sex. The more variety you add, the more she'll want to have sex with you. If I think of more, I'll post
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