Mary3 Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 I have been talking to this man at great length for the last 3 nights and we are planning on meeting this week.... Well he really likes me and is strongly for many of the things that I want . ie: Relationship , committment , loyalty , togetherness , All the things that are very hard to find yet here it is in my lap. He is a big * us * person and believes we can go far. He has mentioned that he upon meeting me he will remove his profile ( if we gel ) . I personally feel a few things... But because I want to meet him and would not want to risk upsetting him I have told him I also would remove mine ( profile ) . Which I do agree that if you are with someone you should not have a dating site profile. However I also believe you should date him , get to know him and decide with time if he is worthy of a committment and the removal of the profile. I realize I can make it invisible or delete it and then if something goes wrong , re start the profile. My questions are : Why is he super speeding this ? Is it because he knows what he wants , he's the man I have been looking for and its just finally * easy * to find whats right in front of you ? He wants exactly what I want ? Is that realistic and real ? He is a strongly opinionated man and expects honestly , loyalty and a committment to work at keeping the relationship ( if we decide on one ) at top priority. Of course I am a Realist. I want to meet him. See if we click . See if we can get along. See his tempermant. Should I be grateful that I was blessed with a great potential guy ?
Porn Man Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 I have been talking to this man at great length for the last 3 nights and we are planning on meeting this week.... Well he really likes me and is strongly for many of the things that I want . ie: Relationship , committment , loyalty , togetherness , All the things that are very hard to find yet here it is in my lap. He is a big * us * person and believes we can go far. He has mentioned that he upon meeting me he will remove his profile ( if we gel ) . I personally feel a few things... But because I want to meet him and would not want to risk upsetting him I have told him I also would remove mine ( profile ) . Which I do agree that if you are with someone you should not have a dating site profile. However I also believe you should date him , get to know him and decide with time if he is worthy of a committment and the removal of the profile. I realize I can make it invisible or delete it and then if something goes wrong , re start the profile. My questions are : Why is he super speeding this ? Is it because he knows what he wants , he's the man I have been looking for and its just finally * easy * to find whats right in front of you ? He wants exactly what I want ? Is that realistic and real ? He is a strongly opinionated man and expects honestly , loyalty and a committment to work at keeping the relationship ( if we decide on one ) at top priority. Of course I am a Realist. I want to meet him. See if we click . See if we can get along. See his tempermant. Should I be grateful that I was blessed with a great potential guy ? You should get to know him before you take your profile down. Maybe he does know what he wants, but also he could be one of those needy type and wants to jump at the firat gal that agrees to meet up with him, but don't assume anything about him until you meet up with him and talk to him.
Author Mary3 Posted March 27, 2008 Author Posted March 27, 2008 You should get to know him before you take your profile down. Maybe he does know what he wants, but also he could be one of those needy type and wants to jump at the firat gal that agrees to meet up with him, but don't assume anything about him until you meet up with him and talk to him. Agreed. We need to meet and find out if we are even attracted to one another. We click on many levels. But its not a blind infatuation type thing. My eyes are wide open. There are things I wonder about. I want to meet in person. I want to see if his strongly opinionated personality is a clashing factor or if I can like someone who is this * out there * and wears his feelings and expectations on his sleeve. I wonder if this personality trait will smother me or make me feel up against the wall or I should just relax and find out if this something I might enjoy ( not the smothering part , lol ) But the strong dedication to making something work fantastic. I am by nature very affectionate and so is he. There is much to learn...
Porn Man Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 Agreed. We need to meet and find out if we are even attracted to one another. We click on many levels. But its not a blind infatuation type thing. My eyes are wide open. There are things I wonder about. I want to meet in person. I want to see if his strongly opinionated personality is a clashing factor or if I can like someone who is this * out there * and wears his feelings and expectations on his sleeve. I wonder if this personality trait will smother me or make me feel up against the wall or I should just relax and find out if this something I might enjoy ( not the smothering part , lol ) But the strong dedication to making something work fantastic. I am by nature very affectionate and so is he. There is much to learn... Indeed there is much to learn. There is no need to rush it, so take your time and enjoy getting to know one another. To me, part of the fun of dating is going in to the unknown and meeting new people and not knowing what to expect from them. Good luck and have fun with the date and the getting to know him.
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