Ash07 Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 I dated this guy about 7 months ago, he was a perfect gentleman...he was real into me, was even ready to meet my family, I did the worst mistake of putting him down about his religion...he got kind of turned off, and we had a bitter breakup. I now recently have started talking to him again, we had a date last weekend...we ended up making out...i asked him about his future thoughts he got kind of teary eyed and asked if we can talk about it some other time. I have told this guy how i really feel about him, but i feel hes just affraid that i will hurt him again. I feel we both are really attracted to each other, but i have caused too much damage from the past...do you think we have a shot at getting back together..? What else can i do..should i just wait for him to call the shots?
Uchiha Sasuke Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 Did you break up with him? Did you initiate the breakup?
sedgwick Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 Are you the one who did the breaking up? What did you say to him?
Quiksilver ca Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 Its almost impossible to come back to a relationship with the same respect for eachother, after a breakup like that.
Tyra Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 I think that you should apologize for speaking negative to him.You may not agree with his religion, but you shouldn't have down talked about it.You may have a chance back with him, and you may not. Being as though he may think that you're against his religion, or whatever the case may be.
SidelineH0 Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 If nothing else, I hope that you have learned that when you care about someone, you must take care with their feelings. Religion is a huge part of a person, and shapes many people. For you to insult his religion, was very disrespectful of his feelings and beliefs, and an insult to him as a whole. It was really immature, and may I ask, why did you do it in the first place? What were you thinking?
macon Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 If you disagree so violently about religion it's unlikely you'd survive for long as a couple. A shared sense of what the world is, and means, is usually quite important ... because rare are the people who can disagree violently about this fundamental thing without anger and resentment growing.
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