Lovegod Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 On and off, over the past while I've been here giving advice to both men and women on how to handle general relationship and dating problems. After all this, I seem to have accidently discovered something. It's something I've never even thought about consciously about the two sexes, but after dating multiple women, it should have been entirely noticeable... and here it is: Women are more inclined to go outside their 'comfort zone' than men. The men on here are incredibly reluctant to try something that they've never done before. They get nervous about it, fear takes over, and it pushes them away from trying something risky, whether it be asking out a woman, kissing her, or even touching her. Women seem to start out the same way, but something different happens... The woman gets nervous about it, but instead of fear, they seem to get somewhat excited about this new idea; this new territory which they've not yet explored or tried. Instead of fear of the unknown, they seem to be intrigued by the unknown and decide to go for it. And guess who succeeds? The woman does. Men, you have a lot of work to do. You need to risk going outside your comfort zone. You need to take that piece of fear and kick it away. You need to try something different if you want to succeed, because what you've been doing and are familiar with has NOT been working. Instead of taking the advice of what you've heard over and over again, take the ideas that seem somewhat far-fetched and unfamiliar. You'll do well to explore new territory, try out new ideas, and possibly even succeed in achieving your goals!
The Collector Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 Man's idea of taking a risk - going to the moon Woman's idea of taking a risk - carny guy.
carhill Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 Programming. Man sticks to the plan because deviation can kill him (literally in some cases). Woman experiments mindful that men who want her genes will save her if she blows it and she has female support network to bring her back to earth. Corollary: A woman can treat a man like shyte because she knows the next guy in line wants to f**k her too. No downside unless he gets violent. Trust me, it ain't no fun being an experimental man Example: Recently we were driving on an undivided state highway and had a catastrophic steering tire failure on my truck. Instant head-on into oncoming traffic; luckily there was sufficient space to avoid a collision and we ended up in the highway drainage ditch. After checking myself for soiled underwear , I proceed to limp the truck down the ditch to a service road to get back on asphalt to inspect and replace the tire with spare. Wife proceeds to call girlfriends and my friends to tell story and ask for help. Business across highway (owner's son saw the incident) sees her on phone, brings beer and service truck to change tire. The power of the female at work If it had been me alone, I would've just continued with my plan. No fear. I work on the stuff all the time. I have a plan for everything, just not women
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