CD111 Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 I am sure you have a attractive girl "friend" get her to go with you, dress up a little and drop a few "honey's" here and there at the dr.'s office.
xpaperxcutx Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 I don't get why you're so bothered by her. You've never even met her face to face. It seems your more upset over the fact you got your ego broken than anything else.
Author SYRACUSE03 Posted March 26, 2008 Author Posted March 26, 2008 xpaperxcutx - You are right it bothered me for the simple fact that I was newly back in the swing of things after a LTR. I admit it because it's a heck of a lot different than going up to someone and getting rejected. I guess you live and learn.
fishtaco Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 Maybe she likes some other guy at the office, and was just pretending to hit up on you to get him jealous. And AussieJack had an interesting post about cockiness level. Filing that away for future references.
fishtaco Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 xpaperxcutx - You are right it bothered me for the simple fact that I was newly back in the swing of things after a LTR. I admit it because it's a heck of a lot different than going up to someone and getting rejected. I guess you live and learn. Things like this will happen, many many more times. This is just how women are. You're wasting too much effort on her by even typing out the message. Move on. Until you actually get what you're looking for, don't expect much. They could disappear on you any time. And of course, don't place your bets too high either. For this one, other than a bit of time, you didn't bet anything else. No loss on your part. Just shrug it off. Typical women behavior. Had two disappear on me back in January. Not sure why they stopped contact. One of them is even a friend's friend, so I'm expecting to run into her some time in the future. Heh, whatever, their choice.
AussieJack Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 I don't get why you're so bothered by her. You've never even met her face to face. It seems your more upset over the fact you got your ego broken than anything else. THis is a pathetic 'dig' at SYRACUSE. He sounds like a great guy who is bewildered by the flaky behavior of some woman who came on strong and then acted like a fool. He has acted in an faultless manner - she has not. He needs answers and an explanation- not some cheap shot at his "broken ego". Sheesh -some of you women are irritating here.
Author SYRACUSE03 Posted March 27, 2008 Author Posted March 27, 2008 Hey guys...I appreciate all the comments, good and bad. All I am trying to do is get feel for why this has happened. Since it never happened to me before, I was "bewildered" as AussieJack said. I appreciate the defending post AussieJack but I don't take it personally, I respect the reader for even viewing my post. I'm not losing sleep or spending too much time on this because all I want is impartial views from LS readers. I've gotten a ton of good advice from readers when I had a breakup last year and just thought I could tap the readers for some more insight. The bottom line is no matter how many people read this and chime in, I'll never actually know the reason unless I confront her which is pointless. I don't want to waste readers time, I'm just looking for some advice. I admit that I am rusty from the "dating" world but this was a curve ball that I didn't expect. I appreciate all the responses!
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