underpants Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 How are you supposed to respond or what do you say to someone who says they miss you???
johan Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 How are you supposed to respond or what do you say to someone who says they miss you??? Tell them to aim better.
Art_Critic Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Tell him to take a picture.. it will last longer... Unders.. you tell him you miss him too ( if you do that is ) if you don't then just say " That's so nice to hear "
Author underpants Posted March 25, 2008 Author Posted March 25, 2008 Tell them to aim better. I'm using this.
Kamille Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 How are you supposed to respond or what do you say to someone who says they miss you??? Hmmmm, you must have been wearing some sexy floaties in that hot-tub. Do you miss them back? Do you need to respond? Or you could just deflect topic and say you had a great weekend playing with rubber duckies out in the big big mountain.
Author underpants Posted March 25, 2008 Author Posted March 25, 2008 Hmmmm, you must have been wearing some sexy floaties in that hot-tub. Do you miss them back? Do you need to respond? Or you could just deflect topic and say you had a great weekend playing with rubber duckies out in the big big mountain. I think it was my burkini. Yea, I already responded once today to an I miss you (in a good way) as in a fashion that Art suggested. I may not have to respond, it was a text. Urgh... (he should let me miss him a little...you know?)
Kamille Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 I may not have to respond, it was a text. Urgh... (he should let me miss him a little...you know?) I own the patent on that "you should let me miss you" feeling. Two miss yous in one day? I think it would be safe to not respond to the second one. Only side effect is that he might miss you more. By not responding you are basically telling him to contain himself. Afterall, you don't want to encourage romantic mushyness (gross ).
Legend Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Why play games, why miss each other, enjoy the time you have when you have it and try to spend as much as possible, you never know when everything can come crashing down.... on a bigger level then your relationship of course.
tanbark813 Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Either the standard, "I miss you too" or the cocky, "That's because I'm awesome."
btc8 Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 I think it was my burkini. Yea, I already responded once today to an I miss you (in a good way) as in a fashion that Art suggested. I may not have to respond, it was a text. Urgh... (he should let me miss him a little...you know?) I don't understand women. Isn't this the type of attention women want in the relationship, especially the beginning? He is obviously in to you though.
Author underpants Posted March 25, 2008 Author Posted March 25, 2008 I don't understand women. Isn't this the type of attention women want in the relationship, especially the beginning? He is obviously in to you though. I know, we drive you crazy huh? I do love that stuff, but too much, too soon can be suspect. I have communicated this with him. I'm not sure how much of it is my issue. I like him too. I'd love to believe that he is as genuine as he seems. I'm just not overly mushy or trusting too soon. It will be okay. I'll talk to him tomorrow and make it all good.
btc8 Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 I know, we drive you crazy huh? I do love that stuff, but too much, too soon can be suspect. I have communicated this with him. I'm not sure how much of it is my issue. I like him too. I'd love to believe that he is as genuine as he seems. I'm just not overly mushy or trusting too soon. It will be okay. I'll talk to him tomorrow and make it all good. Actually, when I said that I don't understand women, I meant, I really do not understand them, and I am not really crazy over women, per se...if you get my rather heavy drift. Good, if you've communicated with him, then that's good. Don't suspect his motives; if you've told him what you need to tell him, then you've done all you can do. It's far too early in the game to be assigning roles to each other.
whichwayisup Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 How are you supposed to respond or what do you say to someone who says they miss you??? 1st time - say I miss you too. 2nd time -Make a joke of it. 3rd time - Ignore the comment and pretend he didn't say it. I don't know why I said that...
Author underpants Posted March 25, 2008 Author Posted March 25, 2008 1st time - say I miss you too. 2nd time -Make a joke of it. 3rd time - Ignore the comment and pretend he didn't say it. I don't know why I said that... Well, I'm doing... 1, 3, 2, then talk about it. That is the plan.
AussieJack Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Either the standard, "I miss you too" or the cocky, "That's because I'm awesome." Even cockier - Her text to me " I miss you " My reply " Yeah , I get a lot of that " Her " Do other women say that too ?" Me, " Yes, can you blame them ?" Her," How many others ?" Me, " Thousands -who can count " Her, " Im jealous " Me," You should be " Her " Im seriously jealous " Me,' I get a lot of that too, but you are on my short list" Her " you are impossible" Me " I try to be " And so on - lots of fun.
Author underpants Posted March 25, 2008 Author Posted March 25, 2008 Even cockier - Her text to me " I miss you " My reply " Yeah , I get a lot of that " Her " Do other women say that too ?" Me, " Yes, can you blame them ?" Her," How many others ?" Me, " Thousands -who can count " Her, " Im jealous " Me," You should be " Her " Im seriously jealous " Me,' I get a lot of that too, but you are on my short list" Her " you are impossible" Me " I try to be " And so on - lots of fun. Where were you an hour ago? Oh well, I'm sure this will be revisited, and I will be prepared. Thanks guys.
Ariadne Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Ok, If I didn't miss him: -Ah, ok. -I don't. -That's cute. If I miss him: Dunno, never happened.
Starry-eyed Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 "That's because I'm awesome." :lmao: Underpants, can you be honest with him? You've already told him once that you miss him, too? The second time, maybe you could say something that's true, like, "Yeah, we had a good weekend," or "I'm looking forward to our next date," or something. Maybe those are too dumb. ??
Ariadne Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 (edited) Ah, Second time: -you told me that already -rolls eyes etc Edited March 25, 2008 by Ariadne
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