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Does he really like me?


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Hello everyone,

 

I'm a single female and guys generally think I'm attractive.

 

I went out for drinks with a group of co-workers. I'm particularly attracted to this guy Mike as he is good looking and very smart.

 

We were walking by this fancy restaurant and I just made the comment that I always wanted to go there. It's an upscale restaurant with a pretty intimate atmosphere. He immediately replied that he and I should go there next time.

 

Later on during that evening, I confided in him and mentioned that I might change jobs pretty soon. He said that he'd be happy for me and that he would still like me even if we no longer worked together.

 

What do you think he meant when he said he would still like me?

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The guy is into you. But every now and then we want a girl to make the first move. He also might not want to mix work and pleasure and could be waiting for you to quit that job.

 

Act now or be ready to accept that you had your window of opportunity.

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When he said that, he means that he likes you now, the present.

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This may sound like the most direct request, but instead of antagonizing yourself over it, why not just ask him what he meant by his comment?

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Some people employ the "dont sh*t where you eat" rule. So perhaps he meant he'd be able to ask you out on a real date if you were to change jobs....

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