bentnotbroken Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 And I hope that you aren't considering a lawyer. That could get really ugly. As others know about your relationship with MM and what you did to try to make him jealous. He shouldn't be bullying you, but be careful what action you take.
White Flower Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 He made me feel so horrible to make things worse I was crying like a baby,I could'nt even catch my breath I was crying so bad,and he did not care he was still talking crap to me he was even laughing at me. Why am I letting him do this to me I am so angry at myself for not defending myself. This one sounds like a real winner. I'm so happy you're no longer with him. You so need to hit up someone better in the same workplace (who is single and can give more of himself to you) and teach that jerk a lesson!
BetrayedMM Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 I know he needs and deserves to know,I know me not telling him is because of my own selfesh reason's. I am doing IC and it is not fair that I am trying to get myself together,only to hurt him later after I feel strong enough to tell him of my A. During my session she told me have I considered going through this together as a married couple rather then doing it alone, since it is something we will both need to deal with. I know it is best for us to deal with it as a couple together, but what if when I tell him, he doesn't care about saving our M. Wow! You have made so much progress! Keep it up, you're on the right track! What if, what if. What if you don't tell him and he finds out anyway? He'll be much less inclined to ever trust you again, and for good reason. Although I normally advocate full honesty, in your case if and when you do tell him, it wouldn't be a good idea to tell him it's because of penis size. If you know anything about men, well. then you know why. Sad thing is, he'll need to know the reason. I'm afraid I don't know the answer to that one, because more lying will only make his distrust deepen. But, if you tell him THAT, the devastation will be at least doubled, and it's hard enough to survive to begin with.
Owl Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 I didn't catch the "size" issue on my first read, so I apologize. You know...there are surgeries that you could get that might help with that issue as well, Lila Bell. Something to consider, if you want to avoid cheating again. Not meant as an attack...its a suggestion of an alternative plan going forward.
BetrayedMM Posted March 28, 2008 Posted March 28, 2008 I didn't catch the "size" issue on my first read, so I apologize. That's from her initial thread. Seriously, you wouldn't think it's the same person!
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