Respktfl1 Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 (edited) Love is something that is often misrepresented and acted out as something that is temporary and self-serving. The feeling that you get around someone is not love. The things that someone does for you is not love. Love is a choice that you make. You choose to give yourself to that person, to trust her with the subtleties of your life...to completely give up all your inhibitions, all your worries, and show your true self with nothing hidden. It is the definition of being free. To be understood. To initiate acts of love toward her at times of randomness, but more importantly at times when you know she needs it. It is not giving up when things are hard. It is not failing. It is not hiding yourself, or deceiving. It can never be altered or changed and is ever present, especially when her cat dies or it is not you she chooses to let comfort her. It’s understanding her. It is made up of your desire for her. It is made up of your passion to know her. It is made up of knowing when to say no to her and set your boundaries. It is always patient, and an open ear and a closed mouth when the day has brought her no peace. It is giving yourself up without forgetting who you are. It is longing for her without sucking out her mojo. It is always making her feel beautiful when she wants to shop, and giving her the remote control when you’re watching action sports. Just letting her smile light you up when your skies are not so blue. Seeing in her gorgeous smile- your heart skips a beat, your body gets hot, you see spots, and the hair on your neck raises- and the simplest, softest touch of her skin can make your desires peak as if emotionally awakened for the first time. Knowing that you have given her the real you and you feel high. Love and trust are one in the same. Give her one, and the other comes with it. Give yourself up, but protect your heart at first. It is what gives you life, meaning, individuality. Then, when she tells you that she loves you, find it in yourself to believe her. When you choose love, stick with it. She will see in you the life (and your life) you have given her and to me, that is the greatest gift. Give it to your love. Let her keep it as a gift of trust; a gift of love. Or don’t. You have a choice. Edited March 24, 2008 by Respktfl1 deleting html code
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