mas21 Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 If someone youve dated and broke up with is avoiding hanging out with you and seems almost scared of your intentions, does continuing to contact him push him away gets him to consider it? I may be blind, but i cant imagine him not being curious.
Green Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 is this person in the scenario still atracted to the person they broke up with? It does sound like the person is being pushed away if this is how they are reacting.
Author mas21 Posted March 24, 2008 Author Posted March 24, 2008 Well i hurt him pretty bad and havnt seen him in a year but have talked on and off. I just dont get why he is not curious would consider it.
JustinWolf Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 I think that if you keep on pursuing the person while they need to be alone will cause them to feel pressure and eventually run away from you. So, if someone is trying to be away from you, just let them.
Author mas21 Posted March 24, 2008 Author Posted March 24, 2008 ya that are my thoughts because i am like a guy when i date, when ppl put pressure on me, it makes me not want anything to do with them. I just am wondering if i should send him a happy bday text in a week, or do i just not say anything.
Green Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 I would just stop contacting him. He'll contact you if he wants.
Trialbyfire Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 I would agree, steer clear of him. No text messages, phone calls, nothing. Best to leave someone alone who wants to be left alone.
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