confused 23 Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 I have been going out with my Gf for 3 yrs. The relationship was going down hill due to us arguing all the time about stupid things. about a month ago she told me she wants a brake. She told me she wants to do her own thing and concertrate on school. she really wantes to move when shes grads. from college. While we were talking about the brake she sed she for the past 3 yrs of us being together she pic us being married... but she didnt have the heart or strength to work on the relationship right now... when i left her house she sed we can still be friends...... 2 weeks after that she contacts me to tell me that her sister in law had the baby she sent pics of the baby too..... we talked a lil about us . I asked her if she was happy with the brake she sed yes and no... the convo ended with her saying im not ready to get back together yet.. the brake been goin on for almost a month and heard from her once which was thru a text....... so im wondering if i should move on or if there is any hope of her coming around
Green Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 I would really move on if I were you. Don't call her at all, sign up for dating sites, ask your friends to set you up on dates, and even flirt and chat up girls you run into during the week that you think are cute. If she calls or emails you to show pics, or just ask a question, just ignore it unless it sounds like she wants to get back togather, dont call her back if she left a message just asking what you were up to this weekend, and never answer the phone if you see its her. Who knows if you guys will get back togather, this is your best chance of getting back with her, and if you dont end up getting back with her you will have already moved on, instead of waiting a long time before you even start the moving on process.
wiseguy212 Posted March 24, 2008 Posted March 24, 2008 It's over. It hurts but it is over. Take time to get back to who you were before you lost yourself. Put a block on your phone so she can't text you, don't pick up her calls, and don't, under any circumstances, contact her. Any contact with her will only give you false hope that you will be with her. Give yourself a break. Take care of yourself. See the movie Swingers.
Recommended Posts