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I decided to post a thread for the hell of it. After all, lovershackers are here to give and receive help. What I need advice for is ...simply a date either from a small crush or discorving someone completely new.

It seems as is steady eye contact never advances to the next level. I understand that getting a boyfriend requires more than silly flirting, but that is all I can step up to. I have a few options open, but I constantly end up avoiding my options when I know he likes me. I guess I feel like dating is a trap that feeds on commitment. I also fear the criticism you hear from bystanders. I understand that person will be worth all the criticism and every other obstacle thrown in the way, but that’s never clear in the beginning. I don’t want another haunting experience. I know I sound ammature right now, but seriously what is the secret, confidence?

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I decided to post a thread for the hell of it. After all, lovershackers are here to give and receive help. What I need advice for is ...simply a date either from a small crush or discorving someone completely new.

It seems as is steady eye contact never advances to the next level. I understand that getting a boyfriend requires more than silly flirting, but that is all I can step up to. I have a few options open, but I constantly end up avoiding my options when I know he likes me. I guess I feel like dating is a trap that feeds on commitment. I also fear the criticism you hear from bystanders. I understand that person will be worth all the criticism and every other obstacle thrown in the way, but that’s never clear in the beginning. I don’t want another haunting experience. I know I sound ammature right now, but seriously what is the secret, confidence?

 

Here is another of my award winning tips for singles ," Rejection is better than regret.. "

Write that on your fridge too and repeat it over and over when you are stuck in traffic.

 

Unfortunately for women, the prospect of being rejected is so terrifying that they often miss the opportunity to meet a great guy.

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