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I go to church about 2 times a year; hence I am a Holiday Christian. (I am 26 by the way.) I was at church today and spotted this girl I have always thought was very attractive that I went to High school with. She was about 10 rows in front of me; I had made eye contact with her once throughout the mass. I had also seen her 4 months ago during Christmas mass as well; she was sitting behind me! (I did not talk to her then either.)

 

I drove home and looked through my yearbook today because I didn't even know her name. It turns out she is 2 years younger than me. (Note: I didn't think to talk to her at mass TODAY because I didn't know if that would have been awkward for such a place, not to mention I go twice a year.)

 

So I have her name. I search on facebook and myspace assuming she would have one of those memberships. Lucky for me she doesn't, thats my fate!

 

I am pondering all day ways to be able to contact her without it being creepy, as if I had to jump through a bunch of hoops to get in touch with her. I also tried classmates and reunion and she wasn't on there. After thinking all day about it and almost giving up, I thought to try the yellow pages. It turns out she lives 3 miles from me (well her parents do, not sure if she does neccesarily.) Therefore I have her street address and house landline phone number.

 

End Question::::: Would calling her house phone be my only recourse? If she is there what do I say? If her parents say she isn't what do I say?

 

HELP!

 

P.S. I would choose chancing running into at future weekly masses to be my last choice for an encounter/contact attempt.

 

P.S.S. My job is delivering pizza if I can/should make a "mistake."

Edited by MissingMyHubby
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