carmenrose Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 (edited) Thanks for reading this, sorry its a bit long but I'm so confused. My boyfriend of 18 months broke up with me about 6 weeks ago, and I stuck to NC for my own benefit as I really wanted him back. I ran into him at the supermarket about 2 weeks ago and he was really friendly and chatty and seemed geniunely surprised and pleased to see me and said we'll catch up later yeah? That night he was online and we chatted for an hour (he had obviously unblocked me) and there was some mild flirting. He told me he'd been wondering alot recently how I was and how good it was to see me in the shop. Near the end of the conversation he admitted he was seeing someone else now, I said I am pleased he is happy but am a little sad it means things didnt work out. When he left he said, its felt really good to catch up, lets do it again text me, I've deleted your number and I'd love to have it again. A couple of days after I'd seen him online, we arranged to meet and have lunch together at mine and swap the last of our stuff. So he came for lunch and he was genuinely really interested in what was going on in my life and kept complimenting me saying I looked really good. When it was time to go he stood in the kitchen door looking at me....he said can we have a hug? I wasnt sure if it was appropriate, he replied we should share a hug, he'd like to. He gave me this big lingering hug, squeezing and running his hands across my back then, he slid his hand down my arm and held my hand locking fingers grasping hard and then looked into my eyes . It didnt feel like a friend hug it went on too long and he looked sad to leave, and thanked me about 10 times for lunch He text me about an hour after he got back to work to say "Thanks again for the lunch, it was a real pleasant change :-)" After the weekend he messaged me about helping him find a new job,he asked me for some advice and recomendations, I figured it was just an excuse to contact me? A couple of days ago he Text me saying "Hi, Stink (his embarassing pet name for me), How you doing?" We texted back and forth and a get together was mentioned but no firm plans made. Today he asked if I would like to have lunch and catch a movie this afternoon(Easter Sunday- surely a day to spend with your girlfriend??). We did and it felt like a date, in the cinema things were so cosy and flirty (he was leaning and brushing against me), and lunch was just as chatty and flirty as our lunch last week, and at the end of the day there was a strange awkwardness and again he hugged me. I am really confused, he came out and asked me if I was seeing someone else, he checked the photographs on my new phone (to slyly see if there were any of him on there), he got a touch jealous when I mentioned a guy an attractive guy in the film and also he asked if I got any valentines cards. Does he want me back? Edited March 23, 2008 by carmenrose
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