Author LoveLace Posted March 25, 2008 Author Posted March 25, 2008 I think you hit it Aussie, because Bill didn't come off as playful, entertaining, and confident...he cracks a funny one-liner occasionally, but that's about as "playful" as he seems to get. But still, I guess these are all things that might take him a while to let surface? I felt like I was the more playful, entertaining one, really. In fact I remember saying things that he thought was downright halarious but in my head I"m going, "Ok, it's not THAT funny"...but I guess it's better than someone not laughing at all.. Now that I think of it, I've always had a better time with guys who make ME laugh more than the other way around...yea, it seems like Bill bless his heart is lacking in flirting skills. I want the kind of relationship where the flirting sord of never stops...being "playful" together seems important to me...right now I don't see it in Bill...shucks...
AussieJack Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Now that I think of it, I've always had a better time with guys who make ME laugh more than the other way around...yea, it seems like Bill bless his heart is lacking in flirting skills. I want the kind of relationship where the flirting sord of never stops...being "playful" together seems important to me...right now I don't see it in Bill...shucks... Are you reading this, men ? This is an attractive 30 year old femme talking - and she is says what I have been saying for a long time - "make them laugh and you are golden". And she goes on " ..being playful together seems important ..." It is VITAL, because it makes her FEEL great...Guys need to trigger her EMOTIONS. And then LL laments " ..right now I don't see it in Bill...SHUCKS .." Men, do you think that BIll, perhaps, is not "doing it " for Lovelace and is headed for the dreaded FZ ? AJ strikes another gong..
norajane Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Are you reading this, men ? This is an attractive 30 year old femme talking - and she is says what I have been saying for a long time - "make them laugh and you are golden". And she goes on " ..being playful together seems important ..." It is VITAL, because it makes her FEEL great...Guys need to trigger her EMOTIONS. And then LL laments " ..right now I don't see it in Bill...SHUCKS .." Men, do you think that BIll, perhaps, is not "doing it " for Lovelace and is headed for the dreaded FZ ? AJ strikes another gong.. Who are you, Doc Love from AskMen.com?
Covonia Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Maybe Doc Love is actually Aussie Jack;) I heard Doc Love for all his advice and money can't land himself a girl.
Balthazar Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 I don't know Cov. Guys who know their stuff usually do alright with the females.
Covonia Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 I don't know Cov. Guys who know their stuff usually do alright with the females. I know my stuff, yet I wouldn't say I do well at all. I've grown tired of all this malarky, I prefer the beauty of being celibate, reclusive and single, then again, after my discussion about "the talk" I can't say I'm surprised by my gradual change from one opposite to another.
Author LoveLace Posted March 25, 2008 Author Posted March 25, 2008 Seriously...guys who've made me laugh a lot are the ones I've fallen the most for...Bill might all around be a better guy than most of them, but for me this is a major preference that's missing...
Balthazar Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Don't speak rash words. Tis spring, much beauty blossom in spring... Not a time to be reclusive, or celibate...
Covonia Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Seriously...guys who've made me laugh a lot are the ones I've fallen the most for...Bill might all around be a better guy than most of them, but for me this is a major preference that's missing... You don't know him properly though, so you can't make a full judgement. Bill could be a stand up comedian for all you know.
Balthazar Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Lovelace, I agree with what you and AJ are getting at. The fun factor's got to be there. Same applies for me; a woman has to be physically attractive and have a sense of humor. Maybe you can set Bill up with one of your 2 sisters?
Covonia Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 So when are you going to put Bill out of misery and let him down gently?
Little Shy Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 I know my stuff, yet I wouldn't say I do well at all. I've grown tired of all this malarky, I prefer the beauty of being celibate, reclusive and single:p :lmao::lmao: Malarky!
AussieJack Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Who are you, Doc Love from AskMen.com? NO, Ii am just an average Aussie guy with a grad degree in elec engineering (very dorky - right ?). BUT i understand the psychology of attraction and I got none of it from any books down at B&N .
AussieJack Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 Seriously...guys who've made me laugh a lot are the ones I've fallen the most for...Bill might all around be a better guy than most of them, but for me this is a major preference that's missing... Guys, here is some priceless insight from LoveBird ..She is willing to pass on Bill because he does not make her laugh even though he , " ...might be a better guy than most ". WTF !! Women will usually tell you that they want a .."sensitive understanding, quality man who treats them with respect and who is a good communicator..." yet here is LOvelace telling us that she "falls the most for " - the funny guys ... They "do it" for her ...She did not mention. "sensitive, caring, respectful, communicator ... what is going on here ?
Author LoveLace Posted March 25, 2008 Author Posted March 25, 2008 Well I just got off the phone with him...he was outta town yesterday because his grandmother passed, so I called to see how everything went. We caught up for a few minutes, nothin' too exciting. I noticed that his voice and the way he speaks on the phone sounds a bit more "manly"...would explain why I was glad to meet him before, after talking everyday for a week. But in person he's more whimpy...weird.. anyway he might be picking up the "just friends" vibe too, because before we met he pretty prompt about calling everyday and around my schedule. He's been back in town since yesterday but we didn't talk until I called him earlier...by then he knew I'd been home from work for about 4 hrs, normally he'd call by then. He also didn't say anything about our plans to go out again this weekend (I didn't either)...it may not mean anything, but there's a chance his interest is dwindling along with mine...I can't say I'd complain if that were the case...
Author LoveLace Posted March 26, 2008 Author Posted March 26, 2008 Well following up on my post from yesterday...Bill has yet to call today on what would be breaking the every-day streak. I'll bet that he questioned our chemistry as much as me. I feel better if that's the case...then I don't have to worry about leading him on or cutting him loose. Problem is, I have no one else to post about...sad and alone...again...
AussieJack Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 Problem is, I have no one else to post about...sad and alone...again... Is that you in the Avatar.. if it is then you should not have a problem getting dates.
Star Gazer Posted March 26, 2008 Posted March 26, 2008 Well following up on my post from yesterday...Bill has yet to call today on what would be breaking the every-day streak. I'll bet that he questioned our chemistry as much as me. I feel better if that's the case...then I don't have to worry about leading him on or cutting him loose. Problem is, I have no one else to post about...sad and alone...again... Um. You spoke to him yesterday later than it is right now, and the day is hardly over. One day does not mean his interest is gone. His grammy just died, afterall.
Author LoveLace Posted March 27, 2008 Author Posted March 27, 2008 Is that you in the Avatar.. if it is then you should not have a problem getting dates. Oh I only wish it was me!!! I've worshiped Alyssa since I was like, eight! I did speak too soon though, Bill called earlier. We said we're still going out this weekend. Cool with me, but I think I'm more excited just to have a date than I am about it being a date with him in particular...however if I don't feel more attraction this time I can't just use him for something to do...no intentions of doing that...I'm rooting for this guy to tickle my fancy...there's still time for it I just don't expect it really...
NuTuDating Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 Give us his number, we'll make sure he tickles something.
AussieJack Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 Oh I only wish it was me!!! I've worshiped Alyssa since I was like, eight! I did speak too soon though, Bill called earlier. We said we're still going out this weekend. Cool with me, but I think I'm more excited just to have a date than I am about it being a date with him in particular...however if I don't feel more attraction this time I can't just use him for something to do...no intentions of doing that...I'm rooting for this guy to tickle my fancy...there's still time for it I just don't expect it really... Yeah, you might as well give it one last shot- There MAY be a gold mine under the top layer of dull and boring . Try this - lead him into one of those discussions about , "What do you find attactive in the opposite sex ?" When you speak, tell him that you LOVE ,"confident, funny guys." THis MAY be enough for him to relax and release the confident funny guy within. Of course , it may be that here is nothing more down there, and you have seen him for the TWO dimensional person he is . IN that case, he should be dating some other two dimensional woman - and that is not you from the contents and tone of your posts. Let me know how it shakes out OK ?
Author LoveLace Posted March 27, 2008 Author Posted March 27, 2008 Thanks for that Aussie, I'll keep ya posted for sure.
norajane Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 Thanks for that Aussie, I'll keep ya posted for sure. What are you doing on these dates? Perhaps you could suggest something that you would like to do that would be fun. If you keep doing the same things over and over, you may not have an opportunity to see different sides of him. Also, what are YOU doing on these dates? Are you talking about yourself and your passions? Are you finding out about his passions? Are you flirting at all? Looking into his eyes? Do you say anything that he might laugh at? Maybe you two aren't compatible, or maybe you two aren't so good at 'dating'.
Uchiha Sasuke Posted March 27, 2008 Posted March 27, 2008 God, it's not working if the man doesn't initiate. You can't have two passives, for CHRIST'S SAKES. That's all she wants people! She just wants a little action, that's all!! *takes off shirt* Alright Lovelace, I'm coming down there right now!!
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