brenda collins Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 I want to send an email to eight month guy, before i cut all contact with him. I want to explain to him how unfair the way he treated me was, i need to do this to gain closure from the situation. If u dont know the situation read my threads: eight months and still no idea what is going on and eight months and still no idea what is going on. new info! ur help would be much appreciated to gain closure from this ******* once and for all.
Carmen87 Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 Just let it go and have no communication with him. Honestly.
Author brenda collins Posted March 23, 2008 Author Posted March 23, 2008 Im not doing it in an attempt to win him back, i seriously want nothing more to do with him. Im doing it to gain closure for myself. I will feel better once I get everything i kept inside over the last eight months out and make him aware of it.
shanny Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 I read your other posts... this guy does not want a relationship with you, obviously. By sending him the "closure" email, it's going to lead him to think that you are distraught. Don't give him that satisfaction! You will be saying A LOT more by just letting it go.
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 I'm not sure what more closure that you need after this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t147807/ I think you both said what you needed to say. I'm not sure what more you could add.
kikikiwi Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 Do not write him!! Why is it so important to drill into him how u felt abused, strung along, etc when you have already told him? It is more important that YOU know for Yourself. Getting closure should be a personal experience--one that does not involve him. It is more important that you know where your faults lie and learn from them rather than aimlessly trying to get 8mth guy to see it from your perspective. He'll never see it your way and the email you would have poured your heart out on will be carelessly deleted in an instant--and I'm sure you know this too.
Belkin Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 If you want inspiration check out Beta's letter: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t147810/ But she didn't send it, probably for a very good reason. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing you till have strong feelings (even if they are negative) for him.
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