Buhmar Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 So, I am a seventeen year old male, getting ready to finish up high school and go to college, and their is a girl i talk to everyday and we work together. For roughly the last 3 months, she calls me pretty much every single night and we have pretty long in depth conversations. Also she texts me through out the day always asking what I am doing/ who i am with. We have hung out numerous times with just us two many times and she has introduced me to her friends. When ever we are around each other, we talk all the time, and always smile at each other, pretty much just do normal flirting things. She laughs at all my terrible jokes, and i catch her staring at me when I'm at work and she is across the building, and when i look at her, she either looks away or smiles a lot. k so about a month ago, i got the courage to ask her out finally after her and i went to the movies, and she gave me a pretty indirect answer. She said "I don't know, im not sure if i like you like that yet" so i was like "Ok. well should i move on or..." and she said "if you want to, I'm not really sure." Since then she has been calling me more/talking to me more/ and texting me more all the time. We flirt more and I'm not sure if i should ask her out again? or just keep going with the flow? or what.... I still really like her and I'm not sure on what i should do. Someone help me out
kathy95 Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 go with the flow. if she gave the same signs before, then was hesitant when you asked her out, shes probably still unsure of what she wants. if you just take your time, things will fall into place. it seems like she does like you so taking things as they come should turn out in your favor. if its really bothering you, which i can see how it might, maybe try talking to her about it? she knows how you feel. ask her how she feels. and just try to be open with your feelings. chances are, if she sees you with someone else, she'll regret saying no the first time. =] goodluck
Balthazar Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 (edited) Why would she want to get romantically involved with you? It seems to me you are her male girlfriend, someone to talk to and validate her. You can read tons of other posts on LoveShack about becoming a girl's "friend". Women do get get involved with such guys. Romantic relationships usually result from creating sexual attraction and acting decisively. It's not about waiting around for her to decide if she likes you or not. You have ,effectively, been "friend zoned". Things go uphill from here dude. Edited March 23, 2008 by Balthazar
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