Da Vinchi Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 (edited) I'll try to make this as short and to the point as possible. 2 years ago, I met a pretty girl at a party and decided to talk to her. We didn't talk much at all, but by the end of the party she was very affectionate towards me. I was a little uncomfortable with her hugging me so tight when we were taking pictures, but it was a good night. After that party, every time we meet up, she would try to convince me to tell her my "secrets". I don't like talking about my business with people I barely know, and I couldn't get a good conversation going with her because that stuff would always come up. Eventually, we just stopped talking. About 3 months later, we started talking again through IM. We had fun conversations and we flirted pretty heavily most of the time. I told her I liked her, but she said it was too sudden, and that she thought we should stay friends. The second time, we were having another flirtatious IM conversation, and then I let a few things slip, and then she asked me if I really liked her. I wanted to say yes, but I thought about what she had said, so I said I wasn't sure. I had also just broken up with a girl I was dating, and she thought I was just on the rebound and I that I just missed my ex. I thought about it, and she was right. So I told her that we should stop talking to each other for a while so I can get myself in shape. We didn't talk for about 4 months, and we didn't see each other until my 18th birthday. I found out she was dating some looser. Their relationship sucked and she kept talking to me about it. Also, at one time, we were having and IM conversation were she basically told me I was kind of a mama's boy (my mom is a single mom, and before I bought my car, she had to take me everywhere). We stopped talking again, and I was pretty sure it was over between us. A few months later, I saw her with her bf at a Christmas party. She kept asking me why I was being so calm and why I wasn't dancing. I tried to dance with her but it was very akward (I did dance with some other girls though, and her sister). When we were talking again on IM, she said she noticed I'd changed a lot. We started talking again on IM, and she started doing the whole affectionate thing. I tried to not care, but I ended up liking her again. That was about 9 months ago. We've been in contact ever since. We just had a party a few weeks ago where I danced with her and it was so great! We danced almost every song; a lot of grinding and body contact, and she gave me a lap dance. I danced with her and only her through the entire night. We also danced a lot of slow songs. We were laughing a lot while dancing because every time she did something nasty, I'd tease her about it, and we would crack up when we mess up (she's a VERY good dancer though). Weird thing is her ex (they broke up because of me a while back) was also at the party, but I honestly did not care...and neither did he it seems. He was busy dancing with other girls so I assume they're good. I bought her a teddy bear, (she has bought me many gifts btw) and she liked it a lot. This girl is very fun to be around. When we talk on IM, we always end up flirting. When we talk face to face, it doesn't take me much to make her laugh. She makes me laugh to. We have inside jokes that only us understand. She cares about me enough to get visibly upset when I don't tell her stuff that's going on with me. But every time I try to make a move, it basically boils down to her just wanting us to stay friends. Was she trying to make her bf/ex jealous at the party? Is this normal for a friendship between a guy and a girl of late teenage age? I'm 18 years old so, I got a lot to learn. I'm not sure if I should keep trying or just give up. Edited March 23, 2008 by Da Vinchi
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