Cpunch75 Posted July 12, 2003 Posted July 12, 2003 you know, i've been given the "space" line, or should I say i'm in the space club with a lot of you guys, and was wondering with this dilemna: how do I tell my gf that I have been seeing other girls, without jeopordizing the status of our potential getting back together? or is it a matter of just saying to her that I met someone else? and too bad you lost out? what would you guys do?
PurpleAngel Posted July 12, 2003 Posted July 12, 2003 Call me stupid but I don’t understand… do you want to be with your gf OR do you mean that you, want space OR do you mean that you want to be with others OR do you mean that you want to break up with her.. not sure what your post means! Yes. It’s possible, I could be going senile!!!
Just A Girl2 Posted July 12, 2003 Posted July 12, 2003 how do I tell my gf that I have been seeing other girls, without jeopordizing the status of our potential getting back together? My question to you would be...why are you seeing other girls if you're hoping for the potential of getting back together? I think you're going to have to make up your mind either way which it's going to be....you totally break it off and move on and freely date others, or give things time and then re-evaluate where things stand with her. I say this mostly because I think it's wrong when people do the "rebound" thing......someone usually ends up getting hurt, and feeling used as nothing more than a handy distraction. I haven't read your previous posts so maybe I'm not up on enough of the details here. So your gf wants some space......guess I'll have to go read your previous posts.
clia Posted July 12, 2003 Posted July 12, 2003 or is it a matter of just saying to her that I met someone else? and too bad you lost out? Yes. Dude, she rejected you. She wanted "space." Let her go off and find someone else. Don't give the time of day to people who reject you. It's simply not worth it.
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