wowIlose Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 Hmm What a ride its been since that day of our break up. Looking back at those first couple of weeks I sometimes wonder how I even managed to drag myself out of bed and go into work... I remember taking 45 minutes to finish a tiny cheeseburger that would have normally taken me 3 minutes to eat as I sat with my friend outside of mcdonalds saying "its over this time for sure". After about 2-3 months of trying everything in the book to get her back I finally stopped, the day after new years she told me shes had sex with another guy since we broke up.. why I went poking around to find this out boggles my mind. Anyway the pain I felt(still sometimes feel) can not be put into words. Since January 1st I have not contacted her.. she reached out to me about 3-4 times since trying to reestablish contact, I did return one call about a week later of her calling to see what she wanted(it never is what you want it to be..). By this point I knew she had a new BF so I knew any contact was a form of trying to keep me around as a friend... Anyway I been much stronger since the beginning of the year but just recently this last week I been slipping a tiny bit again, with thoughts of her and just now a dream with us kissing... I almost picked up the phone and texted her but stopped myself, and decided to come and make a post instead as its totally pointless reestablishing contact when shes in a relationship and I am still not completely over her. damn.. i guess its just one of those days when I really miss her.
Foreverfrustrated Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 Sorry to hear about the tough times, but if we don't go through these, we won't be able to appreciate what awaits us on the other side. It's best to try and move on best you can, i'm in the same position, just trying to move on with our lives is the best approach. Try and find a new hobby or distraction so when you think of her, you can take your mind in a new direction. Good luck, and good job posting on here instead of contacting her, your making great progress and that decision shows it.
City_girl Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 Incredible that you didn't contact. You might not realise it because it hurts but you are there. You didn't do it so you have learned. It's the start of some new phaze of acceptance not a slip at all
sedgwick Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 It's been almost eight months for me and I am nowhere near over it. I can't even imagine looking at someone else, let alone dating them. Sounds like you're doing really well!
eagle5 Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 Anyway I been much stronger since the beginning of the year but just recently this last week I been slipping a tiny bit again, with thoughts of her and just now a dream with us kissing... I almost picked up the phone and texted her but stopped myself, and decided to come and make a post instead as its totally pointless reestablishing contact when shes in a relationship and I am still not completely over her. damn.. i guess its just one of those days when I really miss her. It's been 3.5 months for me and I had to txt my dad yesterday to tell him how much I wanted to speak to her, because I've been having so many dreams and thoughts about her recently. He of course told me not to but I felt it may do some good, (I know I'm kidding myself in reality). I'm with you bro...
ibitealil Posted March 25, 2008 Posted March 25, 2008 6 months..feeling much more better than the 1st couple of months even trying to flirt with others....but last night i had a dream about him and his gf.....my pillow was all wet in the morning cuz i cried all night :-(
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