HisLove Posted March 22, 2008 Posted March 22, 2008 Went out on a first date with a lovely guy - dinner and a walk by the river, then we went to the movies. We spent about 5 hours together. The next day I didn't hear from him and we have been in pretty regular contact prior to the date. I did not text or call him at all. Then around 6pm I went out but hadn't signed out of messenger. When I got home I found several messages where he said hello and asked how my day was (i didn't reply because I wasn't home)...then he said he had to go and gave the reasons why and said he'd try and catch up later. Ended the message with a kiss. So before I went to bed I sent him a text saying sorry I'd missed him earlier, I was going to bed now and sweet dreams. Still I've heard nothing from him. Your thoughts??
Star Gazer Posted March 22, 2008 Posted March 22, 2008 Was is there to think about? You're playing tag. Don't overthink this.
SeraBella Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 Was is there to think about? You're playing tag. Don't overthink this. Agreed. It would be silly to overthink this.
D-Lish Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 How long since his last message and now? I wouldn't read too much into it unless it's been a week or something.
Author HisLove Posted March 23, 2008 Author Posted March 23, 2008 Date was Friday night...his last communication with me was via msn last night...?? He hasn't replied to the text I sent to say good night. So perhaps the date didn't go so well for him. I would think if he was keen, a quick text to say Hi, I'm busy would be in order. Bummer.
D-Lish Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 That's nothing..... everything is fine. Only last night? he is out and about or busy... Don't worry... nothing is up.... he blew you a kiss last correspondence. It's fine.
Author HisLove Posted March 23, 2008 Author Posted March 23, 2008 Thank you dlish - I love you. It's just that the contact is not what it was BEFORE the date...so what has changed??? He said he has his son, which wasn't supposed to happen this weekend. But I don't really understand why that means he can't send a text or make a 1 minute call. Prior to the date I got several texts a day and he would call me everytime he had a break at work. Now NOTHING. ???
xpaperxcutx Posted March 23, 2008 Posted March 23, 2008 My best advice on this is to stop waiting for him to give you a response back. I hate texting especially when it involves having went out on a first date. Guys get flaky after that, they stop responding. I mean they're all interested and attentive in the beginning, but after that not another peep. I'm guessing you're having some self doubts as to maybe you did something wrong or another, but it's not true. Because it's not you. Just give it another day or so, and then text him to say hi. But I'm telling you not to get your hopes up. Don't get too attached.
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