dreamergrl Posted March 29, 2008 Posted March 29, 2008 To the original poster: Take my advice..and then take the advice of the other ladies. Telll me which works for you. I gave you pretty detailed instructions. Try it out and tell me whose advice is right when you're done. I've given this advice to a lot of guys and they've told me it works. Think in the mind of a player. You don't ask fish how to fish. Well us fishies can tell you what will spark flirting back Why think in the mind of a player when he doesn't want to play? And yes, there are good girls out there that go to clubs.
Author KidEternity Posted March 29, 2008 Author Posted March 29, 2008 kid...i live in belfast and i've never met any people in the clubs here i'd wanna date!! :laugh: how the hell did you do it?? (which club was it??) Hey really where abouts? It was in Stiff Kitten! (which I don't really like) but anyway I just got back from a pretty cool date with this girl! Went to see a movie, then we went for coffee afterwards and talked for ages, really happy with how it went
Starla Posted March 29, 2008 Posted March 29, 2008 Hey really where abouts? It was in Stiff Kitten! (which I don't really like) but anyway I just got back from a pretty cool date with this girl! Went to see a movie, then we went for coffee afterwards and talked for ages, really happy with how it went lol i work about 5 mins from there, and have an apartment in stranmillis!!!! :):)
Author KidEternity Posted March 29, 2008 Author Posted March 29, 2008 Awesome ^^^ Dress to impress, always try to over-dress for the occasion. I wouldn't say I dress to impress, I dress the way I want to dress, and I never overdress, flared jeans and a shirt always works for me Maybe I'm limiting myself, sometimes I just throw on some jeans, t shirt and hat! Flirt with all the women. Well if you want to be a player and score with every woman then I guess this is the best bet for you...I personally wouldn't flirt with loads of women, sometimes there are a few smiles with different girls but thats about as far as I'd go... Never let her see you standing still Nothing really wrong with standing still, what if you are talking to your friends? Or on the phone or even if you just like to hang out and have a beer! You can't be dancing all night long... Make your move! I agree with this, I've been the guy pining over the girl...and I've been the guy to get the girl, and getting the girl is so much more fun, and hell life is about taking risks in my book so you gotta go for it! Never approach a woman the minute she arrives at the bar, club, or party. Lol, I agree....awkward. HAVE FUN Yeah, it is essentially why you're going out, to have fun! Not to meet a girl or guy! The game is different in the club eh, I don't think of it as a game so I won't comment... THink of it as a numbers Game I don't see it this way, but if you want to treat it as such then follow said advice! Forget the canned icebreakers Well yeah. Not to give away all my "secrets" but what has usually worked in the past is smile and say "Hi, I'm RJ" and "Do You Wanna' Dance?" (Mainly because I keep thinking of the Beach Boys song when I say it). I'm no expert but I guess you've gotta come across as honest and sincere, and don't fake it. You'll never find the right girl at a club. Good girls come out in the day well you never know
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