Elite Dragon Posted March 22, 2008 Posted March 22, 2008 i had a big shock yesterday as...firstly my gf said she wanted to be given some space...then that she wanted to break up, then i found out my best mate had been texting her to say he loves her and turning up at her house unannounced....foneing her when he is outside the door of her house. We got together last year while she was living with an abusive boyfriend with whom she had a little boy... she was beaten down confidence wise she had no confidence at all and he was basically keeping her as a prisoner, after one bad episode she asked if she could move here with me while she got herself sorted...i accepted and her and the kid moved in for a week, when she decided she was moving back home...over 100 miles away...we said we would continue with the relationship and we did until she thought i had given her a std which wasn't true, she broke up with me and said she didn't want to hear from me again...except that she was moving bak here as she couldn't afford to live over there. She told me when she was coming and asked if we could be friends... well i went round there and showed her round her new home...the shops and how to get on the bus, stuff like that. She asked me after a nite out with some of her friends from home to be her bf again. I said yes as we were spending most of our time together anyway, and it felt right...she goes up and down in that she wants me to move in with her and the kid and another day she doesn't want me around anymore... now she has alot of her life and her independance back, she has said she wants to be single... but on the fone last nite she told me she still loves me...and i still love her....we have spent so much time together and i can't remember a time when i haven't been happy, while in her company. How long should i leave it? there aren't many guys who would accept another guys kid... but i love the little boy as much as i love her.. I just don't understand how there can be love from both parties and no want to be together from one side
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