Author Bobby.Roy Posted April 7, 2008 Author Posted April 7, 2008 Keep going Bobby. Don't look back. You are doing just fine. You have come a long way and just reading your posts is really very encouraging. Good to know we are not alone! Yes, i have come quite a long way since the past 1 month, but some days are absolutely terrible..Like today - i am feeling VERY anxious and very scared; dont know why..My heart is beating like crazy and i am feeling so god damn bad!
Author Bobby.Roy Posted April 8, 2008 Author Posted April 8, 2008 Again, am wondering today what she must be doing, how she might be..I hope she is doing fine for herself...I really do.
Author Bobby.Roy Posted July 10, 2009 Author Posted July 10, 2009 It's been more than a year now since all this happened, and I am happy to say that I am doing very well. Yes, I do get reminded of the past a few times, but that doesn't really hurt. I believe the whole experience has made me stronger from within. I say hold on to yourself during these tough times (break-up), and believe me, with time everything heals. I was a wreck a year back during this time (July 2008) but now (July 2009), I am completely fine, doing very good and very happy and satisfied with my life. I have never ever looked back since then.
greymachina Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 So, I take it that both of you moved on. And you didn't get back to her at all?
moo Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 personally, I don't think you should stop talking about her or writing about her at this point. This just happened. I think you should let yourself feel the pain. I don't think you should think about her 24/7 as I did with my ex, but I don't think you should try to stunt much of your thoughts and emotions for now. I do think you should find a fun hobbie, watch a LOT of three stooges and other comedy videos/DVDs. This stuff is so fresh, just get your emotions out. Mourn, grieve, get it out. Seek therapy...many colleges offer therapy to non-students and students for free.
NopeNah Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 personally, I don't think you should stop talking about her or writing about her at this point. This just happened. I think you should let yourself feel the pain. I don't think you should think about her 24/7 as I did with my ex, but I don't think you should try to stunt much of your thoughts and emotions for now. I do think you should find a fun hobbie, watch a LOT of three stooges and other comedy videos/DVDs. This stuff is so fresh, just get your emotions out. Mourn, grieve, get it out. Seek therapy...many colleges offer therapy to non-students and students for free. His break up was a over a year ago and he has moved on.. Good for you Bobby! Just out of curiosity though, are your"friend" and ex still together?
New_life Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 So I woke up today, crying cause I had a dream about her. Could relate to every word you said bobby... I spent basically good part of my work hours reading everything. Thanks Boby, it helped.. I hope your feeling better, please let us know.. I am right now 3 months after break up from a 5 year relationship, and she went out with another guy just 1.5 weeks after!! Theyre still together, so its been 1 week of NC, since she called and I answered always... So I am now serius in the NC
Ssheena Posted July 13, 2009 Posted July 13, 2009 The thing about time is ..... it takes time. Knew you would come out the other side just fine Bobby.. good on ya.!
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