IHeartYou4ever Posted March 22, 2008 Posted March 22, 2008 Hey all, I have this small dilemma and I would love to hear your guy’s input on what to do. I am in an LDR and in the beginning it was going really well. We mostly talked about our feelings for each other and how we miss each other and all that. Then one day we decided to do a little phone sex…totally my idea and now I’m kind of regretting I ever brought it up since now that’s all he wants to do every time we talk. It’s like now we never talk about anything else, he just wants to do that. First it went from I love you I miss you to phone sex and its just getting annoying and I’m not sure how to tell him that I want to talk about life and other things. So how do I go about telling him this? I know it seems simple like just tell him but when you think about it it’s harder than it sounds. Plus we never really talked about life and all that since we went LD so its definitely harder than it sounds. Thanks.
dreamergrl Posted March 22, 2008 Posted March 22, 2008 If you didn't talk about life and such pre phone sex, what did you talk about? How did the two of you meet? How often do you see each other?
Author IHeartYou4ever Posted March 22, 2008 Author Posted March 22, 2008 We met when I was on vacation. During that period we got to know each other and fell in love. Basically I'm talking about after I went back to my hometown. Since then we haven't really talked about anything other than our love for each other and phone sex. I want to change that and actually talk about life and such. So basically my question was how to go about doing that. Thanks
dreamergrl Posted March 22, 2008 Posted March 22, 2008 Let him know that you want more then a sex based relationship. Explain to him that you want to go to know more about him. I'm assuming you've had to get to know each other someone to have fallen for one another - and get to know him to a point?
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