stanchain Posted March 22, 2008 Posted March 22, 2008 Hey everybody, how is it going? Well against everybodies advice I took her back. Things actually were going pretty good for a few months, and then I hit a wall. I was afraid to give her my all out of fear of her leaving. I started going out without her and all that stuff again. Then I made a mistake and went to my ex girlfriends house. And I didn't do anything. But my ex went to Melissa's job and told her that I came by. And well that was the end. No second chance, no work on things. Nothing. Well that was right before valetines day, we spent valentines day together but haven't really spoke since. Of course she has been going out with her friends and dating and such. Well about a week ago I get an email, and today she called. I look back and I realize I was the one that didn't give us another chance. She was all in though. Anyway she called today and asked why I insent the email I sent her and we talked a touch. Nothing about us. Just casual conversation. Well after talking to her I remember what I told my sister about if you find somebody you truly love you fight for them and don't let them go. So I called her back and she agreed to meet me for coffee on Sunday. Yes I am a glutten for punishment. What can I say I love the girl. But, now I am really questioning if I truly have a reason to go have coffee. I mean she knows that I love her, what the hell else do I need to tell her? Either she is willing to work this out or she isn't. And judging from her walking away and not trying to make this work she doesn't feel the same. Should I go and just completely close that chapter in my life? Or should I step up, swallow my pride and admit my wrong doing and tell her how I feel?
Shindig Posted March 22, 2008 Posted March 22, 2008 Way to go! Nice work getting your stones up. Take your time. If she wants to know what's going on, tell her you want to take it slow and try to work things out. Otherwise... take it slow and try to work things out.
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