emotionally unavailable men.

[Lookingforward]

He is married or in a committed relationship with someone else.

 

 

Ummm, isn't that the deal killer right there at # 1 ?

 

If he's otherwise committed wth CARES if he's "emotionally unavailable" ?? (whatever THAT means)

[Mary3]

Forgive me, but in MY world FWB implies a MUTUAL understanding of the relationship.

 

This is just a guy getting his rocks off for free

 

I was more focused on the component of * him making plans out of nowhere and * and her being available for him . They should change the name of FWB to just f*** buddies because I don't see where the guy who just banged the girl and left could be considered a * friend *.

 

This particular guy she is with is rather crude and she has been hanging on wayyyy too long,. Good thing she found Love Shack. Hope the girl reads lots of posts and learns much

[Rogue]

with no post coittus cuddling and chat , or how great it felt.

 

Didn't you know, guys don't actually like doing the post sex cuddle thing and when they do they only do it to keep you happy, so you don't moan.

[Rogue]

I have to say, women seriously over-analyse and over-complicate things.

[Trialbyfire]

Didn't you know, guys don't actually like doing the post sex cuddle thing and when they do they only do it to keep you happy, so you don't moan.

Not every guy is a grunt, roll-over and fall asleep guy, just like, not all women hate sex.

[Rogue]

Not every guy is a grunt, roll-over and fall asleep guy, just like, not all women hate sex.

 

Men only do it to keep you quiet.

[Trialbyfire]

Men only do it to keep you quiet.

If you can't think of another reason for a guy wanting to cuddle for awhile, don't expect me to explain it to you...

[Rogue]

If you can't think of another reason for a guy wanting to cuddle for awhile, don't expect me to explain it to you...

 

Guys don't want to cuddle. You obviously haven't been privvy to male locker room conversation. I don't know a single guy that actually likes the post sex cuddled, and I know a lot of guys.

 

As I said. It keeps the women happy; stops them nagging.

[AussieJack]

This particular guy she is with is rather crude and she has been hanging on wayyyy too long,. Good thing she found Love Shack. Hope the girl reads lots of posts and learns much

 

This is just a flat our screwy interpretation. Where is the evidence to support your assertions.

 

LIke most men I am endlessly amazed at women's ability to find scorpions under every rock when there are none - and most times there are not even any rocks.

 

You chicks, and your hysterical, fear-driven imaginations, are you own worst enemies.

[Trialbyfire]

Guys don't want to cuddle. You obviously haven't been privvy to male locker room conversation. I don't know a single guy that actually likes the post sex cuddled, and I know a lot of guys.

 

As I said. It keeps the women happy; stops them nagging.

A one shot wonder, huh?

[Rogue]

A one shot wonder, huh?

 

It just makes life easier. There's nothing worse than a nagging, moaning woman and guys will do anything to make their life easier.

 

Put it this way. guy give love to get sex. Women give sex to get love. Once the guy has got sex his interest levels drop.

[AussieJack]

If you can't think of another reason for a guy wanting to cuddle for awhile, don't expect me to explain it to you...

 

Listen TBF, Rogue is right . Men want some post coital

"apartness " (just made that word up) . WE need to move slightly away from her, take some deep breathes and NOT feel engulfed by the afterglow.

I like to get up and raid the fridge for a cool drink and some yoghurt for 5 minutes..

Yeah, I know, that makes me , " emotionally retarded, cruelly insensitive and uninterested in her needs " .

 

Damn why do I not care about any of that?

[AussieJack]

A one shot wonder, huh?

 

She's baiting you ROgue - and not very skillfully .

 

She initiates sporadic small arms fire when she gets bored or has nothing meaningful to contribute...

[Trialbyfire]

*rolls eyes*

 

Okay...I'm sure both of you are fully qualified to speak for the entire male gender. If anything, I think you're less qualified than a lot of other female members on LS, due to the man-chip burdens that you drag around behind you.

[Rogue]

She's baiting you ROgue - and not very skillfully .

 

She initiates sporadic small arms fire when she gets bored or has nothing meaningful to contribute...

 

I know. It's typical of women when their reality is confronted.

[Rogue]

*rolls eyes*

 

Okay...I'm sure both of you are fully qualified to speak for the entire male gender. If anything, I think you're less qualified than a lot of other female members on LS, due to the man-chip burdens that you drag around behind you.

 

Have you had a look between your legs recently? Do you see a pair of balls there? NO? I wonder why not.

 

Since when can a women speak for a guy? Not one woman on this site knows how a guy feels or what his motivating factors are. Guys do.

 

I do not presume to know what women feel.

[Trialbyfire]

I know. It's typical of women when their reality is confronted.

 

I do not presume to know what women feel.

Conflicting statements. You make so much sense.

[pink smartie]

You chicks, and your hysterical, fear-driven imaginations, are you own worst enemies.

 

AJ, I've read a few of your posts and I think you could apply this statement to yourself.

[pink smartie]

Listen TBF, Rogue is right . Men want some post coital

"apartness " (just made that word up) . WE need to move slightly away from her, take some deep breathes and NOT feel engulfed by the afterglow.

 

 

You sleep with a lot of men AJ? By the way, bull****, not all men want post coital apartness.

[Touche]

So why is it then that the times I get up to get a drink of water or have a smoke, my H calls for me to hurry up and get back in bed so we can cuddle?

 

There've been many times, frankly, that I'm just too hot/sweaty afterwards and don't want to cuddle and he pulls me over to him.

 

You really shouldn't speak for all men.

[AussieJack]

Not one woman on this site knows how a guy feels or what his motivating factors are. Guys do.

.

 

Exact-a-mundo..

[Touche]

Exact-a-mundo..

 

Not buying it. Guys don't talk to other guys about stuff like that for the most part.

 

So how many men have you been with?

[Tony]

I've had to delete about 35 off topic posts and there are many more before that that I'll have to get to later. PLEASE, if you desire to post make sure what you write related to the first post in this thread. No off topic banter, conversation, etc. is permitted in our guidelines.

 

NOW PLEASE RESUME THIS THREAD AND STAY ON THE TOPIC OF EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN. READ THE FIRST POST IN THIS THREAD TO REFRESH YOUR MIND ABOUT THE TOPIC. MANY THANKS!

[Rogue]

Communication is " What you receive back ":bunny:

 

Communication is about listening and that is something that women have major problems with.

[Tony]

Regrettably, this thread is doomed to stay off topic....so we'll close it. I'm sorry the full moon brings out the discourtesy or lack of thoughtfulness in some. To me, it's really mean to take someone's thread and go in your own personal direction with it.

 

Thread closed!