girlwithglasses Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 (edited) Posting this for a friend Let's say you are a husband and you've been married to your wife for 20 years. Your wife has an ex-boyfriend from college who is her very, very good friend. They talk on the phone a lot and travel to visit each other regularly. Sometimes the friend comes to visit your wife, some times your wife travels to the friend's city to visit him. The guy is kind of a jerk but your wife thinks he is the greatest. Often, your wife tells you that the guy is way better than you are. He has a better job, makes more money, etc.... She does this every chance she gets and it makes you feel really bad. One day, you find sexually explicit emails between your wife and her friend. The emails go back several years and are very explicit. Your wife says she did not have an affair with the guy. Would you believe her. Edited March 20, 2008 by girlwithglasses
Lizzie60 Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 Posting this for a friend Let's say you are a husband and you've been married to your wife for 20 years. Your wife has an ex-boyfriend from college who is her very, very good friend. They talk on the phone a lot and travel to visit each other regularly. Sometimes the friend comes to visit your wife, some times your wife travels to the friend's city to visit him. The guy is kind of a jerk but your wife thinks he is the greatest. Often, your wife tells you that the guy is way better than you are. He has a better job, makes more money, etc.... She does this every chance she gets and it makes you feel really bad. One day, you find sexually explicit emails between your wife and her friend. The emails go back several years and are very explicit. Your wife says she did not have an affair with the guy. Would you believe her. My answer : NO!
herenow Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 My answer : NO! For the first time ever, I agree with Lizzie. I'd say NO as well. The fact that she is engaging in explicit conversations is an affair of some sort already.
Bryanp Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 Absolutely not. She travels back alone to see this old boyfriend time and again. She continues to contact him for years and you find sexually explicit messages? You would have to be in major denial not to believe they have been in a sexual affair for many years. The wife has totally disrespected and humiliated the husband by her words and actions. A marriage is between two people and not one between husband, wife and wife's ex-boyfriend. The husband should have stood up against this many years ago. The wife's actions indicate she has no respect for the husband at all. If the boyfriend is married or has a girlfriend the husband should contact his wife immediately and expose the affair to her. The husband should also contact an attorney to understand his options. It sounds like the wife has made a mockery of the marriage for a long time. The husband should demand that the wife be checked for STD's and himself also.
LakesideDream Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 Just one cuckhold to another.... That was a rhetorical question wasn't it ?
Crestfallen_KH Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 No. Nyet. Non. If I knew more languages, I'd continue...
Mr. Lucky Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 Posting this for a friend Same with all my posts. None are really about me, all the problems are really my friend's ... Mr. Lucky
Darth Vader Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 For the first time ever, I agree with Lizzie. I'd say NO as well. The fact that she is engaging in explicit conversations is an affair of some sort already. I surprised, I find myself agreeing with her too! NOPE! The wife's cheating for sure!
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