jazzlover321 Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 I had a first date with an Italian girl I met on the way to work, who it turned out was renting a place nearby. It went really smoothly, we talked for hours, we laughed, were touchy feely and she even said she wanted to kiss me so of course I kissed her and she kissed me back with tongue. She went a bit cool after that and said she had an early flight the next day and had to get back. She thanked me for looking after such a bad girl so I assumed her coolness at the end of the date was just her way of making sure things didn't get out of hand and fancied my chances of seeing her again. She kissed me good night and said she'd call me when she was back. As she was so vague about leaving the country and I had forgotten Easter was so early I assumed she'd just gone for a long weekend so i texted her midweek saying "hey are you back in the uk yet?". No reply and it has now been two weeks. Obviously she has gone home for Easter. It seems a bit weird she did not really say when she'd be back and I'm worried that she did not reply to my text because she was not interested. But it is equally feasible that her english mobile number does not work in italy or something. Even so I have no idea when she will be back and am scared by texting her ive come across as a bit needy and too keen so even if she was interested it might have put her off. Anyway i have no idea where i stand and probably won't until she comes back to the uk. But in the meantime i was wondering if anyone had any thoughts. Do you think she will contact me or not?
Balthazar Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 A woman of mystery. More info is needed. Her age? Does she work in the UK? Is there a chance she won't be coming back?
Author jazzlover321 Posted March 21, 2008 Author Posted March 21, 2008 She is 26 years old She is renting an expensive pad in central london with a friend. She is attending language school but the courses are pretty open ended but i imagine she's doing a year course. In which case it is quite likely she is on Easter holidays which is why she's gone home. It would be odd if she did not come back. She said she'd call me when she was back and i would have thought if she was going away for a long time or wasn't coming back she would have mentioned it. I imagine if she is coming back and decided she wants to see me again I'll hear from her after Easter, so within the next week or so. But it seems odd she did not reply to my text and was so vague about her trip
mortensorchid Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 Maybe you were just ships that pass in the night. Hope you hear from her after the holiday weekend. If not, then you always had Paris.
AussieJack Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 I Anyway i have no idea where i stand and probably won't until she comes back to the uk. But in the meantime i was wondering if anyone had any thoughts. Do you think she will contact me or not? You are a little too emotionally invested in this senorina ( ? ..I dont know italian) ... there is little that you can do now. If she wants to see you again she WILL contact you again. GO out and get some more #s and emails. Do it tonight !
AussieJack Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 But it seems odd she did not reply to my text and was so vague about her trip Yep, as my old dad would say out there on the farm, in the outback, " Women - they are queer cattle ."
DanielMadr Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 I have the missing piece: Dear Viking, I thought I might play with you a little and have fun. But you are too easy and I cant break your heart so I contacted my godfather and he managed to hide me in the belly of fishing ship heading to Lybia. Have a nice Easter and dont masturbate too much. Kisses Angelina P.S.: And thanks for validating me. It is nice to know guys still want to kiss me, marry me and maybe even copulate with me.
Author jazzlover321 Posted March 21, 2008 Author Posted March 21, 2008 mortensorchid: thanks for the romantic interpretation, i like that "ships passing in the night" aussiejack: yep you are right the ball is in her court and there are lots of other girls out there. in fact im off to a salsa evening tonight and im sure dancing up close with some sultry latin girls will quickly remove all trace of senorita from my mind! But yeah it is a waste of time trying to figure out girls as they are rarely consistent in their actions. Naturally the reason I'm worried is because the logical explanation would run along the lines of Danielmadr's "missing piece" i.e. she felt like a bit of fun the night before she left the country and while she enjoyed kissing me and flirting with me, has no intention of seeing me in the future so ignored the text. But then girls can be illogical and the only person who really knows if she is still interested is her, and if she is im sure she will contact me on her return and until then im just going to follow the dictum "out of sight, out of mind" and take advantage of the easter holidays to enjoy london nightlife
AussieJack Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 (edited) aussiejack: yep you are right the ball is in her court and there are lots of other girls out there. in fact im off to a salsa evening tonight and im sure dancing up close with some sultry latin girls will quickly remove all trace of senorita from my mind! But yeah it is a waste of time trying to figure out girls as they are rarely consistent in their actions. Two points from me to you. You sound like a good kid so there will be no charge here for my advice - LOL !! Salsa ( and any Latin dance ) is great . You get to dance with a hot '20 something' who you just met, you put your hands over all of her body for twenty minutes of great music , and at the end she says "thank you " . Nice !! SEcondly, women ARE driven by their emotions- the emotions of the moment. THis is the way that they are. The trick is to learn to create HIGH interest level in them as fast as you can - thats not easy either because women's attraction level rises slowly over time. You need to learn to "dial her up" like turning up one of those volume knobs on an old radio set. Men's attraction mechanism is more like a light switch ..."See hot woman = get turned on." ha! Women are not so much attracted to you as a man, they are attracted to the way that you make them FEEL, so you need to work at the emotional level .. HOW? here is a clue - make em laugh all night and trigger off as many emotions in her as you can. Tease her, make fun of something that she says or does . Walk away, and then come back an hour later. More jokes, some cockiness is a great additive. Get her # or email and then LEAVE the club. Call her three days later. Go out and practise. Edited March 21, 2008 by AussieJack
DanielMadr Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 HOW? here is a clue - make em laugh all night and trigger off as many emotions in her as you can. Tease her, make fun of something that she says or does . Walk away, and then come back an hour later. More jokes, some cockiness is a great additive. Get her # or email and then LEAVE the club. Call her three days later. Go out and practise. WHOA, sounds like a lot of work for half an hour of horizontal refreshment. Its so much better to be good looking with 10inch shlong.
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