sumdude Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 Quick background, then a rant of sorts. A year ago January my ex wife moved out without warning, Things had been a bit rough and I had been in a depressed state and drinking for a year after my mom passed away. Still, do leave me in such a manner was awful. To this day i do not know for sure if there was an outside physical relationship but there most certainly was an emotional one on her part. In the last year I've been thorugh a lot, went to 3 family funerals and now almost lost my dad. His health has really deteriorated in the last month. Work and other stresses have been sky high too. I've been no contact with the ex since the first week of December. Since then she called me once a few weeks ago, I did not reply. Why is it that suddenly now she is on my mind so much? Just that one voice mail? It's been over a year since she left and about 7 month since the divorce was final. Lately I feel like I'm being pulled backwards in a way. I'm fighting it and working towards moving forward but some days lately I've had a stronger urge to call her than in a long, long time.
PinkRibbon Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 I wonder why she called? No contact since December and she breaks the ice? Hang in there. It seems like it has gotten better and you have just had a relapse.
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