DanielMadr Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 My personal advice to you is to use your nice guy attributes to develop a network of friends and to meet ladies through them. Friends tend to be protective of each other and qualify potentials before introducing them. Girl-friends tend to scratch each others eyes out when quality potentials enter the area.
DanielMadr Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 Hum.. I have to disagree... Nice Guys are not necessarily 'moumounes' they can be very confident and independant... and respectful.. Now the Good Guys are not necessarily successful with confident, independant women... I think those women would tell him to f*ck off... To think that if you get to decide everything and being macho about the first date is the best way.. I don't think so. Machos attract submissive, emotionally dependant women. It would be a huge turn-off for me. It depends what kind of women you want to attract. Thats because confident, independant women are 9 times out of ten an euphemism for "loud-mouthed, hard-to-please, aggressive, forceful, opinionated, judgmental, confrontational, sarcastic, overwhelming, crushing, uncontrollable, unbearable, intimidating, overriding, overcrowding and everything you can think of when you think of the words "too much"" instead of (confident, assertive, independent, decisive, ethical, strong sense of self, unafraid to stand up for oneself and what one believes in etc)
DanielMadr Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 Trial By Fire: A lot of the qualities I'm looking for sound nit picky... A woman who is secure in herself, her job, and is independant. Not needing anyone to support her financially or emotionally. Doesn't have issues stemming from their ex, never married, in shape, physically active, maintains their body. Sounds shallow i'm sure. What happened to kind, caring, emotionally stable, loyal giver with integrity and loves kids type? Are you a lesbian?
DanielMadr Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lxe2Qf47pcM LOL. Such a loser. Unfortunately there is enough losers to buy his snake oil. Looks like his "method" works only on hypnosis-sugestible people. He had to develop scientific method to be able to grow scientific balls to talk to women. What a worm.
AussieJack Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 Thats because confident, independant women are 9 times out of ten an euphemism for "loud-mouthed, hard-to-please, aggressive, forceful, opinionated, judgmental, confrontational, sarcastic, overwhelming, crushing, uncontrollable, unbearable, intimidating, overriding, overcrowding and everything you can think of when you think of the words "too much"" instead of (confident, assertive, independent, decisive, ethical, strong sense of self, unafraid to stand up for oneself and what one believes in etc) This Daniel guy really knows his "womanspeak"...and I thought i was the only abrasive, "in ya face", guy on this board . Daniel, you are now an honorary Aussie. Well said comrade... LOL .( oh BTW you forgot "extremely unattactive " )
Lookingforward Posted March 21, 2008 Posted March 21, 2008 G'day, How do ya get on with the septics there ? Any dinky di's where you live? Ya hear about the Rudd slide ? You from SA huh ? The Crows are gonna eat crow this year. Hoo roo ... They don't know what a seppo is, and I'm not explaining LOL - It was a bit of a culture shock but it's okay. Haven't run into too many dinky dis here, think they prefer the warmer parts of the country. Yeah, mum keeps me up to date on the pollies and their doings, and haven't really followed the crows state wise - more a tiger supporter wherever I am ooroo to you too
Author jprez1980 Posted March 21, 2008 Author Posted March 21, 2008 Thanks Guys and Gals...obviously a woman isn't going to break down my door so I need to get out there more often in the social setting and quit throwing myself into my work. That Ross guy reminds me of someone else...David DeAngelo I think it is. If I have to resort to those methods of trying to entice a girl...I'm throwing in the towel on dating.
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