ashieannie Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 Ok just found out by facebook (YEAH I know) it popped up in the little feed thing that he is now in a relationship. We broke up at the end of November, I have this uneasy feeling in my stomach. I have thought about him everyday since then, and obviously he hasn't thought about me. It SUCKS, I don't want him back but it sucks! My stomach did a flip flop. How to deal, I was hoping I would be the first one back out there, but I haven't even gone on a date yet!
loveinlife Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 its hard, i have a myspace but i don't even have a relationship yet i say i have a relationship just to piss off my ex. im not sure if its the same scene with your exbf. It is hard to move on. I saw my ex with another guy last friday. I know what you mean by stomach hurts and stuff like that. its a beep. Im trying to not think about her but she resurfaces in my memories every so secs in my day. I just cleaned my room and im going to hit to ikea to make my living space nicer to keep my mind busy and to improve my living environment. its tough, but good luck.
Author ashieannie Posted March 20, 2008 Author Posted March 20, 2008 Thanks you too! I'm sure he has the real relationship not just fake. When we were together talking about relationships of the past, it seemed like he waited a couple mos. and then got into another relationship. But hey at least I'm not the girl that has to have him, even though it sucks right now!
atc2410 Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 If you'd rather not delete your ex as a fb friend you can go into your privacy settings and add friends you'd rather not see news about it: they won't appear in your news feed.
MalachiX Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 Not trying to patronize you but he may well have found a new girl faster because he misses you and wants some distraction. That's how a lot of guys handle these things. I personally really gravitate toward the company of women right now (though personally, I'm still so NOT over my previous relationship that the thought of dating someone else is physically repulsive).
Author ashieannie Posted March 20, 2008 Author Posted March 20, 2008 Well I deleted him, maybe sometime in the future I will add him again after a significant amount of time has passed
LikeABird Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 damn facebook eh? I found out a few days ago that my ex is very much inlove and has been in a live-in serious relationship with his old school friend for a good few months now. And i saw pictures of them two holidaying and family pics over xmas..... ouch ouch ouch! I didnt meet anyone else either, and i wasnt really looking for anyone else seriously enough.... and even though its been a year since we split it was still painful to see him loving a beautiful girl while he never loved me, making efforts in his relationship (moving in together with her) while he never made it me. All this said, and i am happy for him! he;s a great guy and its good that he is finally inlove. however, i was upset for myself, if that make sense....
mike5770 Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 All I can say is time and patience and the acceptance of setbacks..I was doing fine until I saw her today..and now I feel that feeling today you talk about..it kinda feels like she took a sword...lit it on fire..and thrust it right in my stomach. I thought I was doing good until I saw her today and she pretty much blew me off...Then it hurt all over again..All I can hope for is it will recover quicker...I can tell you it does get better slowly...I just had a really bad setback today.
loveinlife Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 everyday seems like a tough day until we get ourselves together. I get these emotional ups and downs. I was okay today until i heard the song that we both used to listen to, plus it was a sad song. sigh. im taking it one day at a time.
sweaterlove Posted March 20, 2008 Posted March 20, 2008 Guys tend to rush into rebound relationships for all kinds of reasons. None of which you should take personally. I know how you're feeling, my ex started dating only a few months after we broke up. Even thougth I resented him at the time I still didn't like the idea of him dating. Hang in there!
Author ashieannie Posted March 21, 2008 Author Posted March 21, 2008 Thanks everybody! Today was a better day, even thought he was in my mind. I guess I believe if it was good with him, it is going to be even better with the person I'm really suppose to be with.
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