Magnatolia Posted March 19, 2008 Posted March 19, 2008 Hi all, I've recently been going to some social events where I basically don't know anybody. I can keep relaxed, although there was one person who didn't really take the time to get to know me. But I find that I cannot be outgoing and confident, I'm not nervous or anything. I just...don't know how to be really relaxed and friendly and outgoing. You know the type of person that everybody automatically gravitates towards. They're not necessarily energetic and outgoing they just have this way of making people happy and comfortable around them. In one on situations with a lot of people I can keep a conversation going really well for hours, yet when in a group situation not very good. Any advice? Has anyone been in a similar situation? what did you do to achieve this?
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